I got an idea. Instead of referring to yourself in the third person and hiding, why don't you go up to your new woman and ask her directly? Not to mention, say, "gee your behavior is disrespectful." If you have otherwise positive feelings for her and this is the ONLY "bad" thing she's done, then discuss this incident in relation to what you expect from her now that you are "live-ins." People need to know what you expect, in black and white.
And another point I'd like to make, given how she started seeing "the guy" (you?) while you were still married, what gives you the right to restrict her internet/real life social life? If she was capable of sleeping with a married man, she's capable of cheating on you. As for you, if you want a fulfilling relationship, then start by being honest with yourself.
Determine what your values are before you go out looking.
2007-02-11 04:09:22
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answered by El Pajaro Loco 3
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all women are always looking for the bbd (bigger better deal), and dude you must not be it...you are just the current boy toy she is using while waiting for something better...just enjoy the ride and keep money and bank accounts locked up and a vasectomy wouldn't hurt either...no child support that way ! AND I'M SURE SHE SAID SHE CAN'T HAVE ANY , BUT DO NOT BELIEVE HER, AFTER ALL SHE'S A WOMAN AND WHEN HER LIPS MOVEFOR ANYTHING OTHER THAN A BJ, THEN SHE IS LYING IT'S PUT INTO THEM FROM BIRTH !
2007-02-11 11:39:22
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answered by Anonymous
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I think you are being paranoid. Maybe she just likes to have friends. I'm married and my wife and I both have myspaces. That doesnt mean we're cheating.
I think ya need to chill on this man.
2007-02-11 12:46:20
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answered by Anonymous
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A tiger doesn't change his stripes. Once a cheater always a cheater. Further, she moved in with someone, doesnt mean she's married. Lady is a tramp.
2007-02-11 12:52:24
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answered by Mensa Head 3
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She appears to be keeping her options open in case the new living arrangement does not work out.
2007-02-11 11:30:36
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answered by IGH3Rat 5
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dump the biotch. she's just looking for some security until something better comes along.
2007-02-11 11:49:07
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answered by edna b 3
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run away as fast as you can. Nothing but heart ache down her path
2007-02-11 11:34:12
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answered by kmfdmiah 2
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If you involved with her, I say find someone else. She sounds a little mixed up.
2007-02-11 11:31:39
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answered by lindablue8 2
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She is trying to be a player,,,and playing you.
2007-02-11 12:01:02
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answered by brp_13 4
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She is maybe too lazy or too stupid to change the photos.
2007-02-11 11:30:56
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answered by Anonymous
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