hello,
just a little insight on my situation....well my ex which is my youngest father decides to call me at 10pm 11pm or even later at times???why do men like to call their ex's so late and its for the stupidest reasons???like what size does she wear or do i have the matter off of cars the movie....what does she like to play with....he knows that i work early in the mornin on the weekends and most of the time he calls me when he doesn't have her???also why won't he dicipline her at his house...like she delibertaly pee's on her self and puts bananas on his couch???he wants me do do it all and i told him he needs to make her respect him in his home...she is only 2 and will be 3 in march but she don't do it with me but she also knows what will happen too.....please help me with this situation and mainly men need to answer beings i am dealing with a grown man...lol
2007-02-11 03:27:12 · 6 answers · asked by wendy p 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i just want to know why men have this problem with their children and i know alot of women who depend on the man for dicipline of the children but i am not one of them?
2007-02-11 03:29:47 · update #1
they call late at night to see if you will pick up the phone like u r sitting there waiting for him to call. NOT!! the only way i would pick up the phone is if he has the child other than that let him leave a message. as far as for him discipling her at his house he doesn't want to be the bad parent so he wants you to take care of it. tell him if he doesnt make her respect his house nor will you. besides you werent there when it happened you didn't see it happen so you are not going to tell the child anything, end of discussion. stick to your guns you have for this long why change now...
2007-02-11 03:52:47 · answer #1 · answered by luv41anatha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is only two. first of all he should only give her food when she is in a high chair or at the table. Second, if she is potty trained, and having accidents at his home, he is not paying attention well enough to her signals. he needs to be more attentive and ask if she needs to use the potty. He can also just put pull ups on her when she is there. As far as dicipline, she is only two. Unless she is actually doing something that can endanger herself, what dicipline? The things that are happening, he can easily resolve, by paying more attention to her. he is like most men, he doesn't want have the sole responsibility of caring for her. Too bad, its Daddy grow up time. Give him some helpful hints, and set some boundries on what times he can call you. Unless its an emergency, he needs to handle it himself. Tell him he should set a little schedule for his daughter, times t o eat, play, potty, nap and sleep. It will make it easier on him Hope this helps
2007-02-11 12:13:44 · answer #2 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first... turn the phone OFF if your daughter is with you.....only take emergency calls from him. get a machine &take the call if it sounds like an emerg. then pick up. He still wants to have some control over you it sounds like and he's thinking of any excuse to call you... only you can stop this... lay down the law and be firm. if he's with another female she maybe showering or in bed so he is sneaking calls? whatever the reason just make the call quick if he has the child...tell him you have company....and threes a crowd..
2007-02-11 12:48:17 · answer #3 · answered by Hi its me again 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They call late to check up on u...maybe he is not 100% over you.
2007-02-11 11:48:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is calling cause he is horny and missing you.
2007-02-11 12:00:07 · answer #5 · answered by Esperenza 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably just feels very vulnerable.
2007-02-11 12:44:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋