I'd just like to know... I wasn't (I got pregnant with my oldest daughter on our honeymoon =)) but my mother was with me(she got pregnant after they were engaged, though, so they weren't married because of me, and they're still married) and my grandmother was with my aunt (she was 17 and got pregnant so she could marry my grandfather- they got divorced). How about you all?
2007-02-11 03:22:05 · 25 answers · asked by caseyagain 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
My mother was three months pregnant with me when she married my father. They had two more kids and were together until the day he died. BTW there is nothing wrong with being pregnant or already having kids and not being married.
2007-02-11 03:43:07 · answer #1 · answered by kc 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I got pregnant with my first child about 5 years after I got married and she is now almost 2 and a half. I am pregnant now and this baby will be born about a month and a half before my daughter turns 3. I am then having my tubes tied. I wanted to wait a while after I got married to have children so that's what I did.
2007-02-11 03:39:30 · answer #2 · answered by sweet_and_fabulous_female 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not yet, but I will have when we get married- we were already engaged before I was pregnant, we want to wait until our daughter is old enough to join in with the day, and I think that she will be ready soon, she's almost 22 months, so hopefully when she is two or three, we will be able to get married and involve her.
I admire you for not having any by the time you were married- I was raised with church and family teachings of 'no children out of wedlock'...but I think I went a bit mad with the new 'freedom' of moving away from home and having a new boyfriend etc...oops!
2007-02-11 03:33:59 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Pamela♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What matters most is that if you are pregnant that both parents provide a loving and caring home for the child... I have seen many people get married because of children, or because they want children and many of thise relationships fail...
Sometime we get so proccupied by doing things the right way that we rush into relationships and make mistakes... I would rather see couples who are happy and willing to make a family work have children whether they are married or not...
I learned the hard way that the tradional life isn't always better... My exhusband left my daughter and I because he didn't want to be father after all...Now I am happily engaged and pregnant... For those of you who care we were engaged prior to being preganant... It may not be conventional but it works for us... Now we will have even more to celebrate...
2007-02-11 04:15:27 · answer #4 · answered by luv2syd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I were married this past November. I found out I was pregnant at the end of August. We were already engaged, and we just bumped the wedding up from March to November. We are both very happy, we had a beautiful wedding and we have a beautiful home. We feel very blessed.
2007-02-11 03:48:15 · answer #5 · answered by *Just Married* 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would of been 7 months pregnant on my wedding day, but I had a miscarriage. We were engaged almost a year before I got pregnant. I got pregnant with my son 2 months after we got married. But we were TTC again the month we got married.
2007-02-11 03:25:41 · answer #6 · answered by ~*Isabel*~ 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
My husband and I didn't even have sex until our wedding day. We'd dated on and off for 7 years before we married, so sometimes people still do things the old fashioned way.
On the other hand, my mom was 3 months pregnant with me when she married my dad.
2007-02-11 03:44:54 · answer #7 · answered by Suliah 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Our daughter was at our wedding. She was almost 4 months old. We were together for almost 10 years already at the time. Personally, we already felt like we were married before we had the ceremony--which still feels like it was just a formality. Our son was born a little over 2 years later.
2007-02-11 03:42:15 · answer #8 · answered by pattypuff76 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i found out i was pregnant 6 days after the wedding... my son was born 8 mos and 2 days after the wedding... we didnt get married because i was pregnant, it was just an added bonus... ;)
hubby and i have been married almost 8 years {8 in april} and are quite happy with each other.... we have 2 kids... a 7 yo and an almost 3 year old :)
2007-02-11 03:32:20 · answer #9 · answered by asailorsstar 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was about 5 months pregnant when my husband and I got married. We went in for an ultrasound in the morning and found out we were having a girl and in the afternoon we went and got married.
I'm sorry, but from the tone of your question it almost sounds as if people who are pregnant or have children when they get married are supposed to be embarrassed or something. "Let's be honest"? Why would anyone lie about having a child or being pregnant? That's just ridiculous!
ETA: We started TTC about 8 months before we got married. We planned our daughter and are very proud to say so.
Another ETA: I don't know about anyone else, but my husband and I did NOT get married because we were pregnant. Yes, we were expecting, but we were planning on getting married for a few months before we started trying to get pregnant. Maybe there are women out there who try to get pregnant to "trap" a man or in a pathetic effort to keep one, but I am not one of those women.
2007-02-11 03:27:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋