Before I begin, if you have never smoked weed or been caught, then please don't try to give me advise. Not to be rude but you don't have the experience to help me.
Well I have 2 older brothers, one who's 22 and one who's 20 while I'm 15. My 22 year old brother started smoking when he was 16, by the time my 20 year old brother got to be 16, he got him into it. My parents caught them the 22 year old a couple times while he was living with my dad, while the 20 year old has gotten caught a few times as well. When I turned 14, I decided to try it. Afterward, I smoked a couple times a week with my 20 year old brother for a couple months before I quit, then I started back up again 6 months later, in september of last year, mostly because I have a very low self-esteem and me and my mom fight a lot. She's a real ***** sometimes and its caused me to go into depression that nobody knows about. Now I smoke once a day, at night before bed. Me and my brother would smoke in our shed and watch tv out there, then come inside and go to bed. My mom would sometimes ask us what we were doing and why our eyes were tweeked. Last night, we were toking before he left to go to my brothers house and my mom walked in. We had just finished and about to put everything away. Afterwards, I had no idea what to say. My brother apologized, my mom just left to get cigs and then when she came home she started crying and talking about how he'll go to jail and asked me why I had done it and if I carried it and such. She was mostly mad at my brother. I don't know what to do after this. My brother is in more trouble then I am and that makes me feel guilty because he never once made me pay for the weed. Now I know I'm going to have to quit. Does anyone have any advice? Also, my family is very conservative. My mom is against druggies because her dad used to smoke weed a lot and grow it. She told me she smoked a few times before so I don't know how she'll handle this. I'm also scared about what other people in my family will say, like my dad who loves me to death and still sees me as his little angel. Please help!
2007-02-11 03:21:58 · 8 answers · asked by crank 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It is understandable that your mom is mad at your brother since he is the one who exposed you to it. Being this young and smoking so often can definitely effect your future so, you need to be careful. Weed can cause depression so, turning to weed when you are feeling down for low self-esteem or otherwise is a bad idea because it can just further the depressive feeling. A lot of ppl smoke weed and it is your decision to do so, but remember that when you smoke in your mom's house you are putting her at risk, too. If police come she will get in trouble, too. The same goes for any of your friends who are around and don't smoke. You just need to be more careful with your decisions. Tell your mom that you are sorry for what you did and go from there... ask her what she would like you to do. Don't mess up your opportunities to graduate from high school and go to college or get a decent job. Being arrested for drugs can completely ruin your future.
2007-02-11 03:34:35 · answer #1 · answered by lysistrata411 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Pot can make your self-esteem worse do you smoke it with Tobacco? What I did when my dad found out was I made a deal with him. where I would only buy a stick ($25) every 2 weeks and hide it outside so that it wasn't in the house. Also if you do get court with the s h i t by pigs (police) take the heat even if all of it isn't yours. If you don't you going to get hurt bad. Also don't feal guilty cos it will try to eat you up And rember if some one outside of family dobs you in get revage.
rember your mum still loves you!!
2007-02-11 04:09:39 · answer #2 · answered by pauleyfrombrisbane 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
just say that your kinda growing up and your just curious of things around you, tell them that its part of puberty to try things or to experiment. . . .i think your dad will understand uhm by the way remember that your that still loves you as an angel right so goodluck to your adventure kid you still have a long way to go! You can try to look also on my questions try clicking my question about weed ok?! so you can read what other people thinks about this grass!
2007-02-14 05:49:05 · answer #3 · answered by Mafioso! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your bong shows in your grammar, mom pays the bills till yer eighteen,yer buds are gonna go the way of last years top music hits and gymn shoe styles,school matters more,, people who do bong show areas of the brain zonked out in MRI pics,non reactive to demands on attention,analysis powers,math,memory. all that awaits you,if the future is like your past,is a dame who puts on 40 extra pounds after 2 kiddies,,hasta,take care of pill boozed out, wigged out mom,,your 2 kids, she needles you about the utilites,and show up on time for your k mart gig, remind you about reinstating the car insurance,appointents with the parole guy,and the attorney bout dismissin the 2 duiS,wonderin if you oughta drive with suspended license to avoid a late clockin at the kmart gig
2016-03-29 02:10:29 · answer #4 · answered by Amanda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her... "Wanna take a hit?"
I used to be addicted to weed... but not no more, I'll do it if I have it in my possession and I will be doing it VERY soon (i hope!!) because my friend's getting off probation and he and I are gonna smoke it up with some ppl.
♥ Christina
2007-02-14 14:48:59 · answer #5 · answered by Christina 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
I think that your brothers are bad influence on you.. aside of everything that makes you upset in your life think of who loves you.. your dad if you love him hon, you will do everything in your power not to hurt him.. so put it in your head IM STOPPING THIS JUST FOR THE SAKE OF NOT HURTING MY DADDY....and just say no hon... i can tell you by experience that saying no makes you more powerful that saying yes... be strong and seek some counseling your so young and be easy on your mom if she got upset by this it means she loves you and she is afraid for you... only you can stop this. soon you will be at the age where you can make your own choices and believe me is a cold world outthere.. most of the kids that are rebellious and do things just to make their parents madd always end up having to go back home for their parents to take care of them... believe me I was one of them.. so make good choices for you.. be strong. you will be fine, good luck hon.
2007-02-11 03:35:47 · answer #6 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
get her smoking with u?
2007-02-11 03:30:27 · answer #7 · answered by Aaron A 3 · 2⤊ 5⤋
BUSTED!!! sorry hun i got nuthin
2007-02-11 03:26:22 · answer #8 · answered by ~Jules~ 2 · 2⤊ 7⤋