This girl is 18 and she is visiting here from England. We have been together alot(6 times) since she has been here. We talk and are past getting to know eachother. I like her alot and want to keep talking to her after she leaves. I dont want her to leave and then we just never talk again. I dont have any numbers or addresses and neither does she and I know I need to get that. She smiles alot around me and we have fun together. The only way for you to really understand the situation I would have to tell you the whole story. What is a way I can bring up still talking to her after she leaves while we are together, what could I say? Since we went to New York a few times together I was thinking I could say heres my email address soyou can show me the pictures you took, but I dont know if that will make us continue talking and I dont think that is a very good way to do it. What is a way to bring it up during times we have left together, how do I say I want to still talk to her?
2007-02-11 03:10:39 · 17 answers · asked by DJIAE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Honestly, i can tell that you are really interested in this girl! the
best thing to do is tell her how you feel! you dont want words to go un-said, if you tell her how you feel you wont have to wonder "what if" .. you'l know. i wish you the best of luck with her!
2007-02-11 03:17:00 · answer #1 · answered by xtragiclovex 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're not a shy guy then just be straight forward with her. Before she leaves, while you guys are hanging out, let her know that you enjoyed spending time with her while she was visiting. Tell her that you enjoyed talking with her, and simply just enjoyed her presence. Let her know that you want to continue this friendship when she goes back home, and maybe even say that you would like her to come visit again, or maybe that you always wanted to visit England, and when you do, she could show you around sometime. Something sweet. Tell her that you found a great companion in her, and you would definitely like to keep in touch, ask to exchange numbers, addresses (home and email). If you don't do it, you'll probably be mad that you didn't. Don't just give her yours, because what happens if she loses it accidentally on the way back home? Make sure that you get hers too.
Good Luck.
2007-02-11 03:25:49 · answer #2 · answered by Loves It<3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two can't email?
Spend some time in the drug store or bookstore (better) reading those greeting cards until you find one that expresses what you're feeling. There grouped in categories, subjects (you can get one for "missing you", cross out the '-ing', and put "gonna" before the "miss"), spend some time reading around there. Write a sincere letter reflecting what you've enjoyed about her and about how you feel when you're with her, include it in the card. Give her a picture of yourself to take with her - can you two get to a photo booth together?
This might be the beginning of the story you'll be telling your kids and grandkids, y'know . . . If you two have really hit it off well, she'll be responsive to you and nobody, nothin' can get in the way of her heart. Risk letting her know how important it is to to you that you two maintain contact until you can connect again. And start saving for your travel expenses! Best wishes for the long distance romance that good stories are told about.
2007-02-11 03:24:27 · answer #3 · answered by Zeera 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how wonderful time you had with her and how nice you felt every time you see her, then you can tell her that you will miss her and would like to keep in touch with her..then give your e-mail and ask if you can have her and the phone number and will she mind if you call her sometimes..make her feel like she is special and get her a small present something like necklace or anything to tight on her hand so she can remember you and the time you bought spend together...make her ware it give her a little hug and kiss on the cheek and tell her again that she will be missed.
good luck
2007-02-11 05:56:27 · answer #4 · answered by trendafilka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is going back in a week and tells you that she does not have an address or phone number or e-mail address or anyway to contact her...WAKE UP...she had a good time while she was here and now she is going back to her real life...wherever that is.
2007-02-11 03:17:04 · answer #5 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How about - have a nice flight here's my email address and phone number - ring me when you get a chance and we'll talk - I'll miss you!
2007-02-11 03:15:02 · answer #6 · answered by jamand 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello there...u r living in 21st century...we have all kinds of communicating devices...why don't u be a man.. be bold...ask her plainly to keep contact....if u like someone..plz let them know...nobody is a mind reader...and to make things clearer there is nothing deeper than communicating through e-mails..there r a lot of things we can write from heart than just say it.It will be a bold attempt for a start go on...chatting also helps...make sure she is also intrested to keep contact with u..before u start ....
2007-02-11 03:47:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't see why it's so difficult. Why don't you just give her your contact details and ask for hers? Say you enjoyed your time together and you would like to hear from her again. Simple!
2007-02-11 04:06:35 · answer #8 · answered by Specsy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that she is a very special person and you would like to keep in touch. If you dont tell her how you feel how will she know?
Be brave and speak up.
2007-02-11 03:19:18 · answer #9 · answered by mermaiden 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Swap numbers and e mail . You cant expect her to stay , but you can see if you keep it going when she is home. If it was meant to be hen i will. You got to see if it is not just a holiday thing.
2007-02-11 03:22:29 · answer #10 · answered by lawsonblue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋