I know a guy who used to really love me and I kept ignoring him. Now he is engaged to someone else and I really really really miss him and realize that I want him back. Please help me as to how I get him back. I am also afraid to hurt his and his fiancee's feeling too and I want everyone to end up happy. I just don't know what to do
2007-02-11 03:09:49 · 16 answers · asked by shystar_fish 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It sounds like you had your chance, and in ignoring him you really hurt him. If you really love him you'll do what's best, let him be happy with his fiancee but be there and be a good friend when he needs you. If you really love him you'll want him to be happy, so be there and be a good friend for him throughout his life and offer to help through the stressess of the mariage.
2007-02-11 03:15:46 · answer #1 · answered by bxi 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I agree with swimlover. Are you sure you that you don't just want this guy back because he's now engaged? When something like this happens, lots of us start wondering what if? If only....Maybe if....There must have been a reason why you ignored him before. It's not so easy, but I'd walk away & chalk it down to experience.
2007-02-11 11:22:32 · answer #2 · answered by Starman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone. You had your chance and didn't take it. Now it's another person's chance and you trying to mess it up because you are unhappy with the result will not help make anyone happy in the future.
2007-02-11 11:13:32 · answer #3 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever watched... my best friends wedding.... if you haven't you should. That movie would clear things up perfectly for you :)
It will work out a lot better in the end if you just let love fallow it's natural course.
2007-02-11 11:13:17 · answer #4 · answered by be my Angel :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want everyone to end up happy -my suggestion is walk away - lesson learned on your part. Sometimes people only "want" what they can't have.
You knew he watned you - so you had him - you didn't want him.
Now that he wants someone else you "want" him - becuase you can't have him.
Walk away - be the bigger person and learn from your ways.
2007-02-11 11:12:49 · answer #5 · answered by 'Barn 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only reason u want him back is because hes taken now...get over it...you lost your chance and have learned a valuable lesson!
2007-02-11 11:12:59 · answer #6 · answered by SwimloverA 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats what u get 4 ignoring him innit..u deserve to b alone n misserable. i bet u av put on considerable weight and he wouldnt want u now anyway. i hope 1 of ur legs shrinks considerably shorter than the other so that u walk funny 4 the rest of ur life
2007-02-11 11:13:15 · answer #7 · answered by maz_pop 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Act Like He's Your Dream Guy And Your Going For Him For The First Time.
2007-02-11 11:12:02 · answer #8 · answered by Spaghetti MY 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
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2014-08-20 01:53:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
*this is my best answer. if he is engaged he is happy. and if you want everybody to end up happy then find anotherguy who loves you. and you don`t need that guy to complete you!*
2007-02-11 11:16:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋