I have never done it and i want to know if i should wait.
I am going out with someone i really like him and he really likes me we have been talking about it but i am still thinking. can anyone help me please?
2007-02-11 02:57:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
like everyone else said, it depends on your age.
but age aside, it seems like you are not completely sure. therefore i think you should wait.
if your cant positively choose 100% on way or another then you should wait. you need to be completely positive in your decision because once you do it, you CANT take it back.
also if you and this guy really care about eachother you'll be able to wait until your 100% sure.
2007-02-11 04:53:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can only offer you advice. but, as others are saying, it depends on what age you are. if your under 17 I strongly suggest dont do it yet, I was going to when i was younger, but thankfully- i admit i chickened out, best decision I made, as the guy i was with wasn't worth it. Ok, my the person I lost it to wasnt the best choice either, but my point is that i was older and could cope with the emotions and stress having sex brings with it. You hear parents lecturing that you shouldn't have sex etc etc but in the end it is your decision. Just make sure the person you are giving yourselft to is worth it&loves you, not just with you because they want sex. once u lose it, its gone forever.. funny, its sumthing u dont think ul miss, but in a few years when u meet sum1 special.. you do miss it.
hope you make the right decison!and if u do go4 it- b safe and consider the pill- mature decision there
xxx
2007-02-11 03:19:07 · answer #2 · answered by *smile* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say it's always better to save yourself for marriage.. In my opinion it's more comforting if both of you had never done it.. Don't you think?
It's a mental thing for me.. Waiting just feels, umm "right", or "correct" if I dare say..
2007-02-11 03:07:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should wait cauz u sound 2young for it and after ur done with it he might leave u unless he really loves u
2007-02-11 04:04:22 · answer #4 · answered by babygurl21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will know when you are ready because you will feel ready. You'll have no doubts and you'll trust the guy. Just follow your instinct.
2007-02-11 04:38:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? I think you should wait.
2007-02-11 03:00:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends how old you are. There's plenty of time to do that stuff. Don't rush it, easy does it.
2007-02-11 03:01:21 · answer #7 · answered by Truman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do it until u feel it! when u won't think about it any more,it means that u r ready! if u do it now,maybe u will regret it...good luck ;)
2007-02-11 03:03:44 · answer #8 · answered by dannutza 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you cant even type the word "sex" on the het 4 stranges to read you arent read to have sex
2007-02-14 14:11:34 · answer #9 · answered by rocker_chick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋