im sixteen and a female of course and have an attraction to girls (only fit girls) but i also have an attraction to guys but i cant be bi because in my religion its wrong to be gay but i cant help the attraction what do i do?? what should i do i cant sleep im just to tied up on it please help !
2007-02-11 02:56:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Check out this Website:
http://www.godmademegay.com
That might give you some peace about your situation. You may have to one day look at your family's religious beliefs and decide if you honestly believe the same way that they do, or if you feel like you need to be a different kind of Christian they are. Either way, I pray that God will bless you with peace of some kind.
2007-02-11 03:14:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are only attracted to fit girls, then i don't think this is a real attraction. to be totally bi, you must want more than just sex or looks... if you don't seriously want a serious love or romance with women, then i don't think you are totally bi.
there is nothing wrong with accepting your bisexuality in your own mind, yet living your life as straight.. i am bi, but my goal is to find love with a woman. i want biological children, so i can't expect another man to solve this for me.. hehe
as far as religion, well, maybe you will eventually be forced to chose between your sexuality and this religion. religion is just a label.. you don't have to conform to 100% of religious beliefs to still believe in god. God and religion aren't necessarily one and the same.. you can still be bi or even gay yet still love god.. God loves all, and God won't punish you for loving other girls.. that's for sure..
2007-02-11 05:54:40 · answer #2 · answered by Jeff 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried accepting yourself for who you really are?
Do you think God would want you to feel miserable and have you keep a secret from everyone else?
When you get to heaven than I'm sure you'll know than but until than I see no problem in being who you are as a person?
2007-02-11 03:24:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's also against my religion as well to be gay. You may want to try it out and see how you like it. I really want to know what it's like to make love to another female. I am married to a wonderful guy, but I'm wondering what it's like to have sex with a woman and suck on her breasts and lick her ***** and eat it out.
2007-02-15 02:45:52 · answer #4 · answered by deb2rule 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can be anything you are...gay bi straight...And you can also let a 2000 year old book tell you how to live your life..You learn to live life on your terms.
2007-02-11 04:05:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't help it, it's who you are. Denying it might only make it worse. It /is/ possible to be faithful and still remain who you are, you know :) So I'd say don't really worry about it, it's nothing you can help and it doesn't make you any less of a faithful person.
Peace
2007-02-11 03:08:12 · answer #6 · answered by cali haze 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you're not gay =) you're bi.
bend the rules a bit my dear
2007-02-11 03:08:44 · answer #7 · answered by IanTan 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
deep down you will have an idea of what you want to do, just do that.
2007-02-11 03:07:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋