My co-worker is constantly suspicious of me being shady! She's always accusing me of "acting funny" and says that "something's going on I'm not telling her about". If I don't go into her area enough or chat with her multiple times a day, I'm mad at her or am keeping something from her. I don't see anything different in my behavior that would make her think that. She's always accusing other people of "talking about her" as well and really for no reason. Other than this occasional freak out, she's really a nice woman but she's driving me crazy! I don't know how to make it stop!
2007-02-11 02:42:29 · 8 answers · asked by mickeymel9 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I strongly recommend focusing on your job instead of her antics. If she gets upset because you are not talking to her or starts to make accusations simply tell her that you need to get your work done and are not able to talk. Please remember that this is your job that you could potentially be messing with. Your boss may be overlooking her antics and be noticing that you are spending alot of time talking to this woman. It sounds like she may have low self esteem but your workplace is not the time or place to help her work that out.
2007-02-11 02:55:02 · answer #1 · answered by Kimberly P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask her if she is really aware of her behavior. Let her know that you think she is a nice person and you have no reason to dislike her or talk negitively about her. Mabe she is just a little insecure. Tell her that when she continually goes through out the office being suspicious of others, and accusing them it makes people not want to be around her. Its very unattractive. and it puts people off. I would have this talk with her privately, and be kind about it. I think she will stop once she feels more secure.
2007-02-11 02:55:10 · answer #2 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
turn the table and ask him how he would experience if yet another guy requested you to go back over to his position and also you all will be on my own. i'd call the tramp and say whats up, I referred to the position you texted my husband and basically needed to attraction to close what time we ought to continually be there? you'll understand through her reaction what her intentions are for particular! be careful. believe me. New infant, youthful marriage, he will be feeling a touch neglected. examine with HIM AND keep YOUR EYES OPEN!!!! Worst case, confront her. do not close your eyes to it. enable her understand previous the shadow of a doubt the position you stand. also, if worst is composed of worst, call her boss at paintings and tell him what she's doing. i'm particular which will be a frown on her. Fraternizing with coemployees is oftentimes regarded down upon
2016-12-04 01:07:56 · answer #3 · answered by huehn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may have emotional or mental problems,that obviously you cant fix.You could tell her that you are trying to focus on your work and cant talk now.If that doesnt stop it you might want to talk to her supervisor.
2007-02-11 02:49:03 · answer #4 · answered by april showers 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you are there to work and if you have time you will chat with her on your break.
2007-02-11 02:50:58 · answer #5 · answered by Ms. Angel.. 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Partecipate only to work related discussions with her.
2007-02-11 02:49:07 · answer #6 · answered by Marco 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that her behavior is annoying.
2007-02-11 02:46:41 · answer #7 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore her.... its hard to do but its the most effective way to stop her
2007-02-11 02:46:27 · answer #8 · answered by Btieti 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋