I have done it before with past lovers but only twice.
2007-02-11 02:34:16 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Umm.. yeah. If he's so experienced. why can't HE figure this out. Sorry, question makes no sense. Unless by "experienced" you mean "has had many girlfriends because they all dump him since he's terrible in bed." That would make sense.
Anyway, if he's not pushing your buttons then you can always just push them yourself. Get in a position where you've got some maneuvering room (think reverse cowgirl, doggy style, whatever) and just reach down there and um, handle the issue single-handedly. Still not sure why Mr. Experienced isn't doing the handling, but it beats going without, and I guarantee the dude will have more fun than he deserves if you do.
2007-02-11 03:05:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he's so all fired experienced then he should be able to bring you to orgasm. The key is to enjoy yourself and relax.
If he is finishing too fast he is not "experienced", he has just had a lot of partners who moved on because he was careless
Really if he brings you to orgasm orally first then you have intercourse it is easier to have the second orgasm with him inside you.
2007-02-11 02:41:25 · answer #2 · answered by startrektosnewenterpriselovethem 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
well for things like that it can sometimes take women time, he is only a new lover and it doesn't matter about his past experience he doesn't yet know your body inside and out. Once he does then you'll probably have no problems, it also helps for you to get to know your body inside and out so you know what works for you.
2007-02-14 21:39:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't get too worried about having an orgasm while he is inside you, as long as you are enjoying it, it shouldn't matter. A majority of women can't orgasm with intercourse, i being one of them, but there are otherways to acheive an orgasm. I'm sure if he knows you are enjoying it he will be enjoying it also whether you orgasm or not.
2007-02-11 02:41:02 · answer #4 · answered by Jazzybee 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe thats not the way to your pleasure! i.e. other things stimulate you. why not try other things first before hes inside of you. Some women need pleasure of both parts if you get me!! but if hes so experienced.... then why isnt he doing the job right?!?!?!
2007-02-11 21:08:00 · answer #5 · answered by Bubble 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Experience is not the same as skill.
He needs to work on his skill level and needs to take the time to get to know your responses.
A skilled lover is one who takes the time to learn what his/her partner enjoys.
2007-02-11 02:57:50 · answer #6 · answered by freebird 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he's that experienced he should know. But I will tell you, Let him go down on you for a bit 1st.
2007-02-13 05:58:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, he is not experienced. orgasm comes out of experience and with full exertion and exploitation of every bit of it.
2007-02-11 03:03:01 · answer #8 · answered by Janu 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
most women have trouble with this one, if it doesnt happen, if hes as experienced as you say, he will no exactly how to stimulate you in other ways, if youre tense it wont happen
2007-02-11 07:19:01 · answer #9 · answered by chakra girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax, exercise, relax, try yoga. Smile, too!
Don't worry, you are experienced too. Remember, sex is only part of the equation. Seek the other parts of the puzzle as well.
2007-02-11 02:40:58 · answer #10 · answered by PeaceNow 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋