i need to go shopping i havent gone in forever so is there any way to tell my mom pleeaassee
2007-02-11 02:07:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
just tell her
2007-02-11 02:15:56 · answer #1 · answered by Mel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are reasons some moms may not want to go shopping (finances or some moms have social/anxiety issues that make it hellish to go in these situations). Try to figure out why your mom doesn't or hasn't taken you in a while.
If it is finances and there are some things you need, let her know that you understand money is tight but that there are a few things you need and list what they are, most moms will try to work something out. Stick to your list and thank her after wards.
If she has anxiety issues, explain what you would like and suggest going at a time when there will be less people around. Also have a short list of specific shops you would like to go to and ask to go specifically to those shops. It will be a little easier to cope with if she knows what to expect and isn't overwhelmed. Stick to the list and thank her after wards. You being understanding will make a huge difference and make her more open to trying again in the future.
If she has simply been too busy, offer to help out some to get things done more quickly so she will have more time. Ask her if the two of you could go shopping and maybe have lunch. It is a nice break sometimes and she may not realize you want to go shopping with her.
Your relationship with your mother is a two way street. Let your mom know you appreciate her, it makes a huge difference.
2007-02-11 13:27:48 · answer #2 · answered by Starshine 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to your mom and say that you would like to spend some time with her and that the perfect activity is to go shopping. A lot of moms like going shopping with their girls. It is like spending quality time with them and usually makes them feel good. So ask her if she would like to spend some time with you shopping and doing some extra chores around the house would help. Good luck.
2007-02-11 11:28:23 · answer #3 · answered by yari1229 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well 1st off ... do not nag about it. Ask her what can you do around the house today and for reward.. can we go shopping? Make a deal with her and show her that you are willing to do things to go. Good luck.
2007-02-11 10:12:46 · answer #4 · answered by luvthbaby2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my mom always takes me shoppiun because of my grades so try that or do sumthin for her or jus ask her and do NOT nag her about it...
2007-02-11 12:27:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask your feiends then tell her that your friend want you to go shoping
2007-02-11 15:51:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start wearing clothes that are too small for you, too tight etc...
2007-02-11 11:11:25 · answer #7 · answered by Lori 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋