ok she's prego but she has a boyfriend n i was wit her at da same time i belive im da father to that baby but she's thinkin of having a abortion wat should i do,tell someone or let her do it,i really want to be a father
2007-02-11 01:45:04 · 7 answers · asked by spoon tech 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Talk to her. Tell her how you feel and see if it changes anything. If she don't go for it... if your up for it tell her you'll gladly keep the baby and rise it. You have a say in it too.
2007-02-11 01:55:03 · answer #1 · answered by Tara Elaine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a human being, I don't believe in abortion anyway but you do have the right as the baby's father. Make sure you know for sure you are though. I think you should really sit down with her and determine if you are the father, then try and talk her out of the abortion, God gave her that child for a reason. If she goes through with the abortion, she will have a terrible concience the rest of her life.
2007-02-11 09:56:18 · answer #2 · answered by christinanicole85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a new grandmother of a 6 week old baby. You as the father can speak to a attorney and ask to have a amnio done to see if you are the father. If you are you have the right to prove that you are fit to be a father financially and have support you can make her have the child and gain custodial right.
2007-02-11 10:07:27 · answer #3 · answered by Froggie Jay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should talk to her and try to decide something together. remember though there could be the possibilty that you aren't the father of the child and where would that leave the girl. that might be how come she wants an abortion. all i can say is talk to her about it. then if she decides to have it then have a dna test done. if you aren't and she doesn't want the baby then she can always put it up for adoption cuz there are plenty of people out there that want children.
2007-02-11 09:58:47 · answer #4 · answered by camsweets1718 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to win her confidence and loyality.Prepre her positively for marriage& life time partner ,inculcate in her the spirit for baby. You Will power definetetly will brought positive thinking in her.
2007-02-11 13:58:24 · answer #5 · answered by Ram krishan C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel. It will reassure her that she'll have support and if she does have the baby to make sure get a paternity test.
2007-02-11 09:58:19 · answer #6 · answered by Nyomi's Mommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell someone. If it's your baby, you have a right to decide the baby's fate.
2007-02-11 09:48:43 · answer #7 · answered by Babyface 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋