I LIKE THIS GUY WHO IS PERFECT FOR ME, EVEN EVERYONE IN SCHOOL SAYS HE IS. BUT SINCE I HAVE NEVER ASKED SOMEONE OUT, OR EVEN HAD A BOYFRIEND BE4 I WAS TOO AFRAID 2 ASK HIM OUT SO I ASKED MY BFF 2 ASK HIM OUT 4 ME AND HE SAID HE WOULD TRY 2 TALK 2 ME THE NEXT DAY BUT HE DIDN'T TALK 2 ME UNTIL FRIDAY AND ALL HE SAID WAS SUP? AND THEN HE WALKED AWAY! I TALKED 2 HIM ON A MONDAY AND SAID SUP? BACK 2 HIM AND HE WAS SHOCKED OR HAPPY OR SOMETHING I COULD SEE BY THE LOOK ON HIS FACE. MY OTHER FRIEND ASKED HIM WHY HE HASN'T TALKED 2 ME AND HE SAID "I DON'T KNOW... I THINK I COULD DO BETTER". I TOLD MY OTHER BFF 2 TELL HIM THAT I DIDN'T EVEN LIKE HIM IN THE FIRST PLACE AND THAT MY FRIENDS WERE JUST TRYING 2 GET US TOGETHER BECAUSE WE HAVE A LOT IN COMMON. TECHNICALLY IT WAS A LIE BUT I JUST WANTED TO END THIS WHOLE THING I DIDN'T WANT HIM 2 THINK THAT I LIKED HIM. WHEN MY BFF TOLD HIM THAT HE REACTED BY SAYING OH IN A SAD OR CONCERNED VOICE. NOW I JUST WANT 2 BE FRIENDS WITH HIM BUT I HAVE.......
2007-02-11 01:37:07 · 8 answers · asked by joelle 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
NEVER HAD ANY GUY FRIENDS BE4 SO IS IT ANY DIFFERENT TO ASK A GUY 2 BE FRIENDS WITH YOU? HOW DO YOU ASK HIM TO BE FRIENDS WITH YOU AM I SUPPOSED TO JUST TALK TO HIM LIKE A FRIEND AND SEE WHAT HAPPENS I NEED HELP HOW DO I TALK TO HIM HE IS SO HOT HOW DO I TALKED TO A HOT GUY WHEN HE IS LIKE WOW GORGEOUS HELP!!!! P.S. RIGHT NOW I SOUND LIKE A TOTAL AND COMPLETE LOSER. HELP ME THANKS
2007-02-11 01:40:32 · update #1
i think you might need a guys opinion here. for starters, getting your bffs to ask him how he feels about you is silly. we dont know if what we are told is a joke or serious although its nice to think a gorgeous girl likes us. then he was being cool and hoping to impress you with his charm. but you attacked him and hurt his pride, hence the "i think i can do better" remark. probably said without thinking, to make it worse. then your bff 2 said you didnt care about him and that hurt. big time. imagine if someone did the same to you would you still want to be their friend? the only way to fix this is to ask him out no ifs, buts, or maybes. and if is as hot as you say then you had better hurry up or you will lose your chance. just remember, you have everything to gain and nothing to lose.
2007-02-11 02:21:43 · answer #1 · answered by evil Hesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Blue eyed girl, why don't you save the worry and I know you are young but get up the courage to just go up to him when he says sup? to you and say, "Do you like me more than just friends?" and see what he says. If he wants to talk about it later or won't come out and say that he does the all you have to do is say "Well I just wanted to tell you that I wanted to just be friends if that's ok with you, I like you and all as a friend but I'm not ready for anything else" making him think that someone had told you that he liked you. But if he says yes then do what you feel in your heart or say, would you like to come over or go to the game with me or whatever you guys say now! LoL!
P.S. On your additional details, you don't have to ask a guy to be friends with you. All you have to do is be a little innocent flirt and say to them in the sweetest little voice you have and look them in the eyes when you say this with a smile "I LIKE YOU!"
2007-02-11 09:46:44 · answer #2 · answered by K-E-G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you have a tough one in my opion you should just move on.I had this problem similar to yours.This boy liked me and ILiked him so I told my BFF to tell him I like him and want to go out with him.He played to many games and was not ready so I got tired of waiting and moved on so maybe you should so do the same.
2007-02-11 09:54:02 · answer #3 · answered by hotck15 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys find it totally unattractive when a girl's friend asks him out for you. You should've been the one to ask him....just leave it be for now.
2007-02-11 15:32:23 · answer #4 · answered by *~*RaChAel*~* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow maybe you should comfront him and say i just want to be friends.And maybe in the future you guys will be goin out
2007-02-11 09:43:20 · answer #5 · answered by Applekisses11 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is better that you speaking with him on that and not your friend
2007-02-11 09:45:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats the question? after reading all that mumbo jumbo i forgot.
2007-02-11 09:53:37 · answer #7 · answered by Btieti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats your question? are you gunna make your friends fill in for you on your date if it ever happens?
2007-02-11 09:40:30 · answer #8 · answered by Gina Smile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋