Question for married women or women who has significant other.?

Question

I was having a conversation with a few married women about having other women visiting their home. Majority of these women stated that they do not entertain other women (female co-workers/friends) in their homes. They would accept their close family members. What brought of this conversation was I have a friend/co-worker who enjoys dating married men and other female co-workers (who she is friends with) will not invite her to functions held at their home. What about you ladies? Do you entertain women outside of your family to your home?

Answer 1

I am not a insecure woman, however married or not i don't socialize with other women who go for married men. They just don't appeal to me as a friend. It just shows they have no self respect and trouble makers, so no i don't entertain those kind of women in my home, but i don't just have my family over either, we have neighbors we play cards and stuff with and i have female friends over all the time, i trust them because i have known them for a long time. And above all i trust him, he has never given me reason not to.

Answer 2

I don't think there is anything wrong with having other female co-workers get together at your house after work. You can make great connections with people, socialize, and have fun. You could even have some of your female family members there and help them make new friends too. Don't let the negative actions of one female co-worker effect your cool idea. If anything, don't invite her She will get the message. Sounds like a great idea because several of our co-workers get together one night a month just to socialize about anything but work. Good luck to you.

Answer 3

I agree with 1st poster. Why would I invite trouble into my home? On the other hand, I'm not insecure about my relationship so I guess I wouldn't care who came over or whether or not they slept with married men.

I often entertain women at my home and I also go to their homes.

I suppose if a woman were that insecure with her marriage, then she might not ever have any women over because any one of them would be perceived as a threat to her.

Sorry to say, I think this is pretty common. Either women are insecure with themselves or their husbands have given them reason to feel insecure. Either way, it's sad.

Answer 4

Well I think the key to this is your statement:

I have a friend/co-worker who enjoys dating married men ...MARRIED MEN == Already taken

No way one I want a woman that I already know dates married men at my party ........it is a disaster and fight waiting to happen

Sure entertain people outside of the family in your home just make sure they have good moral values

Answer 5

no i would not want this type of person visiting my home, no i do not entertain women other than family in my home, because other women are sometimes heartless, and do go after a good thing, and i think your just setting yourself up for problems if u know this about the woman. my sister once befriended a lady, had her for dinner and functions, not too long after on a Christmas eve, he left my sister for this woman and destroyed the marriage, my sis ter lost her home, everything she had. i often wonder if it would have still happened this way had she never let this woman into her life, and her home. personally i would not do this, as i value what i have and want to keep it.

Answer 6

I have and do entertain women in my home. But let me say that I only have a handful of women that I consider my friend(s) and trust them completely. I have to also say that I trust my husband as well. I would not tolerate a women in my life who has no respect for my marriage, or herself for that matter. If I did "associate" myself with someone like that, (and I use the term very lightly) she would know where I stand as far as women dating married men, and what would happen if she crossed the line with me.

Answer 7

It all has to do with trust. I trust my husband not to cheat on me. He has female friends - some that he's been friends with for a very long time. I have no problem inviting them over to our house. I have never had a problem. I am not going to limit my husband to a specific gender for friends because I am insecure. If he loves me, he's not going to stray. Again it's about trust. If all it takes is for another woman to enter the household - then I would be evaluating just how serious and loving he really is.

Answer 8

If this friend enjoys dating married men, then no i would not allow her to be around my husband. Why would I take the chance of inviting trouble into my home.
You must have some rules of who is allowed in your home and who isn't.
Like people that steal, strangers, drunks. ect....

Answer 9

They seem to know something that you don't so Maybe you should listen to them. If this woman has a history of dong this, why would you want her at your home anyway? I have acquaintances and I have friends. I have people at work that I am acquainted with. I spend more time with them than I get to spend with my friends but I guess you could call them work friends. And no I don't have them over. I don't really have the time. Once we get off work its time for home and family. Be careful who you call "FRIEND"

Answer 10

To completely rule out all women who aren't related is just hogwash....and insecure and silly. If I'm in my home, and so is my husband, there ain't a whole lot that's going to happen without me seeing and knowing, and if something were going on, I would nip it in the bud. Maybe these women's homes are too big?