I cant orgasim?

Question

I have a problem! I have not had an orgasim by a partner or myself and i have been sexually active for sometime now. I had a extremly serious boyfriend for 3 years and i was completly comfortable with him and still i just couldn't. Is there any type of exercise or pill or anything that would help me!?!

Answer 1

no,..you need to get to the bottom of this.
reeks of psyche problems.

Answer 2

awwww that is a disgrace..what a sad tale...for sure your previous is responsible for this...inspite of the actual shown actuality that inspite of this, some human beings in basic terms do not have an orgasim in any respect yet nevertheless earnings from the sex. It would not sound as nonetheless that's you nonetheless...i'd have said councelling yet you've tryed this too...i imagine that's only a time situation for you, and a affected man or woman and quite being concerned, awareness significant different that could also help you via it..i does not pretend it nonetheless, i imagine this may have a adverse result on the way your wondering, admit on your hubby that you pretend it from time to time, if he's worth his weight in gold he will comprehend and not in any respect create a fuss, then take issues slower... good success...

Answer 3

I have never had an orgasm either, and not thru lack of trying from both me and my partner. I am about to start usind a product called fematril - this product increses the desire for sex ( because sinse i dont get anything out of sex i have no desire for it ) and it hightens sensuality - i bought it from bodestore.com it has a full disriptoin of the product on the website. I havnt started using it yet as my partner has gone away with the army for 10 weeks - as luck would have it i got the product in the mail 1 day after he went away!

Answer 4

Women take a lot longer than men to orgasm. First, you should have a great deal of foreplay...again, it takes our bodies longer to get in the mood, lubricate and let the vaginal walls relax. You can try toys and role playing, whatever gets you turned on. Some women only orgasm with clitoral stimulation...try with toys, or fingers, variable speeds and pressures, until you find your thing.

Also, try adult movies...it can really work to get gals in the mood...watch with your partner if you can. You will be amazed at what can actually put you in the mood.

Answer 5

Not every woman can orgasm. I went years without one, until I learned how do do it myself(I was in my early 30's). I use a vibrator, veritable speed. DO NOT insert it. Pick a quite time, just for you, experiment with the "toy". I didn't know what an orgasm even felt like, until I did it myself. NO MAN has ever been able to bring me to one...I use my toy during sex...HUGE turn on for the partner.

For those who gave me a thumbs down, a side note: I had an accident as a child(no not falling on a boy's bike!). Some of the nerve endings were damaged...I need the extra stimulation, AS this lady might.

Answer 6

There are actually supplemental vitamins that you could take. If your over 21 drink a couple of alcoholic beverages, not enough to get drunk, just enough to get you tipsy so that you are at ease. Also, wait until no one is home and explore yourself. Find out for yourself exactly what you like and then show or tell your partner and let him/her help you. So women, believe it or not, go years without ever experiencing an orgasm. I hope this helps.

Answer 7

My wife had the same problem for a long time, I encouraged her to get some toys and find out what she likes. If you dont know what you like, you can't tell your partner. Also sometimes the mental hurdle of getting over how "dirty" it is can be a huge factor depending on how you grew up and what your parents thought about sex. There are also some topical creams, and your obgyn can prescribe some hormone treatment - but i believe that is mostly for sex drive not necessarily orgasm. good luck.

Answer 8

Masturbation. If you can't give yourself an orgasm how can you expect anyone else to be able too? I'm guessing you didn't do much masturbation as a teenager.... that's when most people learn. Find a cute guy on webcam and have some steamy chat with him, and maybe watch each other masturbate on webcam. You have to get really turned on in order for it to be possible.

Answer 9

All women are capable of orgasm, not just orgasm but ejaculation as well. You need to practice on yourself by stimulating your clitoris as well as g-spot stimulation . You can do this by taking your hand like you are holding a cup by the bottom. Insert as many fingers as you like, keeping the curve of your fingers in place. You will feel a little "lump' or "bump" inside. Move your hand in and out over the "bump" while using your other hand to stimulate your clit. Try not to concentrate to hard or think about it to much, just let your mind relax and your body will do the rest. I hope this helps!

Answer 10

subconsciously u must not be fully relaxed I think..

Bit of a catch22.. first u didnt orgasm a few times..started worryin about it..now its become an issue in your head..making u even less relaxed..

U need to slow down, introduce massage and other relaxing pleasures into your sex life avoiding intercourse..so the experience is more about fun not achieving orgasm...more foreplay with no pressure for full sex and orgasm..

Take it slowly, its more about the journey than the destination!

Answer 11

you need to tell your sex partner what you want and how you want it . Women take a little longer to orgasm , some of them ,not all of them . It usually helps if you get a vibrator and get "to know " yourself better to see what set's you off over the edge .

Good Luck