2007-02-11 00:16:29 · 24 answers · asked by Sparky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no. but more often than not they are and the marriage is ruined anyway. my opinion has always been: if you want to be with someone else, leave. don't cheat, just leave.
2007-02-11 00:19:25 · answer #1 · answered by somebody's a mom!! 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not really...
But those people around or involved,whether directly or indirectly, in the extramarital affair always get something bad out of it.
But maybe,even after long generations have passed...it is possible for the affair to be discovered...
2007-02-11 00:27:08 · answer #2 · answered by BlueRin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are always discovered,due to the time u spent with the second party.your wife will also notice the different u react and the way u behave .at the same time u will also treat your wife very good till your wife will ask u the sudden change due to your affair.
2007-02-11 00:23:32 · answer #3 · answered by rick tay 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If a dude does it, then yes a woman can sniff out the other lady parts smell on the man.
If a woman does it, she's really sneaky and can continue doing this for years. See women are used to being sneaky because they are liberated and used to dating multiple partners at the same time. So, they are good at covering thier tracks.
2007-02-11 00:29:43 · answer #4 · answered by Billy Bob D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No not always BUT you still feel guilt and shame afterwards and it is best to tell instead of letting this eat you up alive and remember they might be hid from the spouse BUT God sees all and knows all. There is a saying Be sure your sins will find you out!
2007-02-11 00:52:48 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Bible says what is done in the cover of darkness will be discovered in the light. But, Jeuss also said, "You will know the truth and the truth will set you free."
2007-02-11 00:30:45 · answer #6 · answered by penhead72 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say about 99% are either discovered or it comes into the open out of conscious.
2007-02-11 00:19:17 · answer #7 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt it. With as stupid as most people are, some are careful enough to get away with it.
However, I think the person being cheated on often has a feeling that something isn't "right".
2007-02-11 00:37:26 · answer #8 · answered by Kaia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no not always but your intuition knows even if u don't, and u sense that things are not quite right. eventually it does cause problems in the marriage, Even if it's something none of your five senses are telling u. but deep inside we can feel something is terribly wrong.
2007-02-11 00:22:30 · answer #9 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, and sometimes the cheater should just keep their mouth shut if it was a one time thing to save the other person the heartache.
2007-02-11 00:21:02 · answer #10 · answered by mom of twins 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even if the spouse never finds out in your heart you will know you did something wrong. A married man once asked me out I said no way he said she will never know... I said she may not but I will, and I do not want to have to explain this to anyone when judgment day comes..
2007-02-11 00:19:53 · answer #11 · answered by bluedanube69 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋