About half of my class thinks I'm gay because of that i got tricked from the beggining of the year with a joke that makes you seem gay. How can I prove to people I'm straight?
2007-02-11 00:10:40 · 22 answers · asked by The_Red_Bishop 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
dude, you dont have to prove yourself to no one, the only opinion of you that matters is that of your own, and of your loved ones, these people that are striking at you, are nothing but imature lowlifes... trust me, at skool i was bullied something rotten, because i enjoy drama, poetry, and dancing... rather than all this matcho, mumbo jumbo they try to force u to like, but what i did, i showed them that i can be better than them, by going out their, and doing what i wanted to do... right now i am heading towards a distinction grade in performing arts, and have been accepted into drama skool, all because i believed in myself, and i let no one bring me down... u need to do the same mate, trust me on this one, do wat u want to do, and be who u want to be.
2007-02-11 00:20:27 · answer #1 · answered by born_4_the_road 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had some straight guys tell me that only girls who wear their wallet in their front pocket and keys in the other are gay. They were talking about me. I am not gay but hate to carry a purse because of an old shoulder injury that makes it uncomfortable to even wear a bra. Over the years I've just blown their thoughts off. Mind you I even had a girl once hit up on me in a bathroom in college because of this same wallet and key idea. I have been married for 20 plus years and have never kissed a girl or wanted to be naked with one. I very much love being with my husband.
Get some cool t-shirts that have manly sayings on them about how girls are cute. Hit up on the most popular girl in school. Make sure she is not dating because you may get your face punched in and surely watch for the nasty girls that will try to set you up so they can date you just to lie and tell everyone that they can confirm that you are gay. Might be best to find a girl outside of your school.
Remember, Your better looking then you think and their is probably a girl who is madly in love with you that stares at you all the time. You might try giving her a chance.
2007-02-11 08:43:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything you do will only seem like an attempt to hide the fact you're gay, whether or not you are. Who cares what your class thinks, really? You should be comfortable with who you are first. That will make more of an impression than someone running around trying to prove themselves.
2007-02-11 08:16:28 · answer #3 · answered by Goddess Nikki 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ok this happened to me at the beginning of the school year and all you have to do is (A) Ignore them
(B) Go to a party and make out with a girl
(C)Or tell them "Dude If I was Gay you would be making out with me because I'm so hot!"
Most people that say that are the gay ones they are just hiding it! .I went with choice (A).
2007-02-11 08:19:15 · answer #4 · answered by Ron Kyle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is NOTHING that ones can do to prove something like that. The only one you need to prove something is yourself. To me you sound kinda desperate like you are ttrying to hide something.Dont worry about anything as long as you know that you are gay OR NOT then no matter what the H3ll people think...Good Luck
2007-02-11 08:50:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ouch... you don't even know the half of it. i once had a "friend" who kept spreading rumors about me. they may of seemed funny to him, but people really believed him. for a while i was the most hated kid in the 6th grade. He really hurt my feelings. were still friends, he stopped. but if i could go back in time, i would have kicked his ***, even if it meant we wouldn't have been friends now.
i would get a gf and spend every chance w her that i could get. anyone who would call u gay then would be a follower, an idiot.
-CROOSTER!
Edit: I can be funny, lots of people think i am, I have so many different personalties, I don't even know who i am anymore. funny, nice, quiet, boring, mean, grouchy, friendly, talk-a-phobic........
i may look decent on the outside, but inside im really a mess.
2007-02-11 08:47:10 · answer #6 · answered by Kurt Cobain2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to prove anything like that to anybody. You can't really "prove" it anyway, what can you really offer as proof? A bunch of pregnant women? You are worrying about the wrong thing.
2007-02-11 08:15:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
So what?
You do not have to prove anything - if they want to believe something false, that is your choice.
If you are being bullied or tormented, then I am sure your school has a policy to deal with that.
They will soon get bored ... or grow up.
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2007-02-11 08:19:16 · answer #8 · answered by abetterfate 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are you concerned with a few misguided classmates? Are you concerned with the potential fallout of new relationships? Don't Worry Be Happy! Show others you will not be governed by their opinions.
2007-02-11 08:22:23 · answer #9 · answered by just Reese 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont' try to prove that. Build up your self esteem with true friends who will be nice to you. Spend time with your dad , uncle , or trusted adult . They are great self- worth builders.
Join a club or sport or youth group.
2007-02-11 08:28:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋