If you love someone so much and they always seem not to understand the thing they did was hurtful what soon i?

Question

Being blind is do hard to let go becaus eyou really love them and you dont want to even think of them dooing someone else >what should a people do if after you said you forgived but you didnt after you tought you could and it messed with you for days.

Answer 1

Yea it is hard to forget and forgive someone u cared for a lot who broke ur heart once or hurt ur feelings, but it is not impossible.

You need to talk to the person about how you are feeling, and then when they apologize sincerely then u need to say u forgive them and u will have to move on, start a new relationship or better yet just have fun with ur friends and ur family and people who are there for you.. It will take time for u to forgive and move on so i suggest u to first talk to that person who hurt u and then be with ur friends and family and try to enjoy your life that will make u forget him/her as soon as possible..

Answer 2

Unfortunately, We have all been blind at one time or another. The first thing to do is be honest with yourself. Then with your partner. Let them know they have hurt you. Time is the only thing that seems to heal the heart.

Answer 3

If what this person is doing is on going and they continue it is time to say bye, bye. They are not even tring to see how they hurt you. It is all about them. Stand up and say hay I here now and now I gone. Be strong.

Answer 4

u have to take it to god, and ask him to help u with forgiving him. it is never easy to forgive it, but the alternative is having to give up the person u love, therapy often helps us to forgive. just pray when u feel bad.

Answer 5

you could forgive but never forget, you need to make this person understand how you are feeling and if it still don't work than you need to move on. nothing is worth your tears and frustration

Answer 6

Be strong and cut them loose.

Answer 7

i feel that way about my husband