she s widow and she has a 12 y old boy..she s our neighbor and so lovely and kind..also beautiful.i dont know how can i tell it to my parents and her?i think bout her day and night and will kill myself if i lose her..
2007-02-10 23:14:36 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Im not sure but you are talking like you have something going on with this woman or this is all in your head... well if you are actually seing this 37 year old, first things first.. Hon the age gap is huge on this one.. I personally dont see nothing wrong with a temporary relationship with a woman this age, but you have to understand that the only thing you may have in common right now is sex.. I dont think it could ever be more than that? just don't get so obsesive with her or is going to scare her away, and she will stop the relationship.. right now you are young and you have your heart mind and soul in to this, she is more mature and chances are that she doesnt feel the same way is you.. but you are 21 and old enough to make your own choices I dont think your parents should know just yet... talk to her and tell her how you feel and she will guide you the right way hon... good luck.
2007-02-11 00:21:14 · answer #1 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's old and should probably be experienced enough to notice your feelings for her. I don't know what you are doing. If you do work - meaning you have money of your own, maybe you should ask her for a dinner. You would have a chance to learn more about her. But you must not make her feel that you went out to dinner to talk about you. Show her that you are interested in knowing more about her and how she copes since the death of the husband. Comment about anting good you see in her. But always be cautious not to let the cat out quick, lest it runs for life and you become a loser. Good luck!!!
2007-02-11 08:55:53 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋