As i already said, i was planning to ask this guy to coffee yesterday, but by the time i got the courage he had finished his shift...therefore my friend decided to go up to 2 of his coleagues and ask them where we could find him and if he was still in the store and they replied that we might be able to catch up with him at the exit, however, we didn't. So, there is no doubt that im going back into the store today to ask him out, the only thing im worried about though is that the colleagues will have told them that 2 girls were looking for him and he will think im a stalker. What do you think? i'd appreciate any advice...thanks! :-)
2007-02-10 22:53:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
He's not going to think your a stalker. It's perfectly reasonable to understand what happened. Nothing out of the ordinary here. If he asks about it, tell him what happened. He will understand.
2007-02-11 02:23:21 · answer #1 · answered by Count Acumen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah! He won't think you're a stalker! He'll probably be flattered, guys are harder to scare, and I don't think anyone would get scared out of that! Stop being paranoid, nothing bad is going to happen. Why would he get scared? Two cute girls asked about him, not two clowns with bloody knifes in their hands! Cheer up! :)
2007-02-11 11:41:38 · answer #2 · answered by lucantropeea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are the colleagues buddies of his or just colleagues? Buddies will definitely give him the heads up. Either way, I don't think asking his where abouts constitutes any kind of weird behavior. Have you ever talked to him before? Its only weird if you continue to ask about him and never actually go and talk to him.
2007-02-11 07:04:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the collage will not tell him cuz they have alot of stuff to do rather this minor thing however incase they did
they we're 2 girls
you can simply deny that it was you and i guess he wont ask you about this when you open such a sensitve subject (asking him out) his mind will be moving into another direction
go ahead and ask him i can assure you it will go ok
2007-02-11 07:03:16 · answer #4 · answered by Syrian4life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you find the guy, tell him you were trying to find him the other day. You wanted to ask him out, but were too late to find him. If he is a reasonable person, he will hear you out. If he can't give you the time of day, thank your lucky stars. Most people would be flattered that you wanted to be with them. Don't beat yourself up. You sound like a very nice person to me.
2007-02-11 19:02:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man will not think stalker first he will get a ego boost and then he will anxiously await for a women to come into the store checking out each one and wondering who it will be and then he will be flatterd in a macho way.
2007-02-11 07:01:15 · answer #6 · answered by xrayman1987 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think he would know if he was being stalked - stalking is a prolongued and unnatural obsession with somebody, to the extent that it causes them unease. I think he can only be happy with the attention you have outlined here.
Good luck to you both.
2007-02-11 07:01:48 · answer #7 · answered by steveb9458 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him out, he will be flattered, even if he already has a girl.
2007-02-11 07:07:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh,yes i remember you..Well, i don't believe he will think you are a stalker.. But, you can wait a day and then ask him again, xx
2007-02-11 07:05:26 · answer #9 · answered by kittana! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that he would be happy. unless he dated two girls at once and they found out about each other that he thinks that you two are those two. he just might call in. jk. good luck.
2007-02-11 07:05:19 · answer #10 · answered by misstress n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋