I want to go to a childrens home but i dont know how, should i run away, should i get social services involved or what?!?!
2007-02-10 22:51:58 · 14 answers · asked by imortal_emo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well why do you want to go to a children's home?
Are your parents being abusive towards you? Do you feel threatened by them? Please, if you do, tell someone you trust and they will call social services for you or if your parents have hurt you in anyway - I urge you to call the police.
If you've just had an arguement with your parents - stay put, don't do anything stupid. If it was just a harmless disagreement then your parents still love you and a children's home is no place you want to be.
In any of the circumstances - don't run away - it's a very dangerous thing to do.
2007-02-10 22:56:11 · answer #1 · answered by don't stop the music ♪ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What are your reasons for wanting to run away, maybe it will help to talk to someone in confidence perhaps a teacher or you could phone up the social services if there is something bad happening to you. Could you not talk to your parents and tell them how you are feeling or maybe another adult you trust to talk too. Social services wont just put you into a home they will try to work through whats causing you the problems but offer support to get through, please dont even consider running away it will only make things worse for you. hope things are better soon
2007-02-10 22:57:58 · answer #2 · answered by mumoffour 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dear, first of all, the social services should be involved, to analise your actual situation, your reason for which you want to leave home. Usually, people who go in such childrens homes are those without a family. So, secondly, you should reconsider your position, maybe you can improve your actual situation. Not everything is pink around those places, you know?
Good luck.
Larisa
2007-02-10 22:55:29 · answer #3 · answered by Larisa 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A childrens home is not a very nice place to grow up, a childrens home is for the less fortunate, you have internet access so im sure you have a steady balanced lifestyle.. you didnt say why you want to run away.. but if its something bad then yes phone child-line but if its because of something,, well stupid then i suggest you solve the problem..
2007-02-10 23:24:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you didn't say why you wanted to go to one but running away would not be the answer.
Since you have a specific goal in mind, you should contact social services. Talk to a social worker and explain your situation and see what your options are.
2007-02-10 22:55:27 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if there is a need for alternate care for you call children's services but you need to do this with the knowelage that not all of them are good.you can look on the internet under child abuse/foster care and find all kind of stories as this is what i had to to for a class.make sure you are not just pissed at your folks right now as that is no reason to leave but if there is abuse then get help and get out.one thing to remember is even if you go into the system you may be abused but you can call your worker to move you to a different placement.good luck
2007-02-10 23:10:22 · answer #6 · answered by angel_ns_texas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-28 23:06:04 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you not in danger, being abused or threatened. You need to stay home and trust that things will smooth out.
Children's homes are not pleasant, most are in it for the money not the children, the children there are not cared for and have no rights while living there.
Be careful, for what you wish for.
2007-02-10 23:08:37 · answer #8 · answered by eyes_of_iceblue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Well, if your parents are abusive then yes, talking to a school counselor would be the first step. From there they will tkae care of things, however if you want to run away just because your parent's grounded you for not doing your homework, well that's just silly, but if they are truly hurting you physically, leaving welts and bruises, then yes, talk to a school counselor. If you run away, you will get caught and be sent back to your parents.
2007-02-10 22:56:32 · answer #9 · answered by Jeanny W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think someones been watching tracy beaker far too much
seriously a children home is not what it seems
be grateful you have parents
Unless you can honestly say they dont love and care about you.
Therefore,i would consider telling someone like, a teacher asking for their opinion.
2007-02-10 22:55:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋