i'm 12 and i have a boy at school that told me that he loves me and he wants me to be his girl friend, i like him too but i'm too young to be his girl friend, and my friends think he's a freak because when he comes to class he looks as if he's drunk! but i think he's friendly and he always defends us when we're in trouble! i can't show him that i like him but i don't want him to be sad because my friend told me mean things to say to him and i told him these mean things!! help! what do i do?????
2007-02-10 22:28:51 · 12 answers · asked by Alice :) 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ohh and my friends don't knoe i like him
2007-02-10 22:37:01 · update #1
ohh and my friends don't know i like him
2007-02-10 22:37:12 · update #2
Just tell him that your parents don't allow you to date or to have a "steady", he will understand and you guys can go back to being friends.
Send him a nice Valentine card.
Don't stress it out. Go easy.
2007-02-10 22:50:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should start by telling him you're sorry for saying the mean things. Then just tell him you are not ready for a relationship at the moment, but want to be friends. Or just say your parents don't want you to have any boyfriends at 12, it's a great excuse and it lets you off the hook.
2007-02-10 23:38:16 · answer #2 · answered by Sassymilly 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hana, i think you are right, you are too YOUNG! im 21 and i still think that i am young for a lot of things that are happening to me sometimes and to people my age most of the time.
All i can say is that you have the chance to enjoy life right now. Do not rush. I know that u like him but if he is right n ad if he is the one for u, that canb wait and at the end he will stil be there...
After all, waiting for a couple of years will test his intentions, huh?
2007-02-10 22:37:20 · answer #3 · answered by juno 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your too young to fall in love or to enter into a serious relationship...Why don`t you just try to be friends, and if he`s really serious and in love with you, he`ll wait for the right time or the time that you will be ready for a commitment or when you reached the right age....Gud luck!
2007-02-10 22:36:28 · answer #4 · answered by tommy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wear smomething like a high waisted skirt, and a plain top. The actual clothing should be very plain , and then totally deck yourself put with big chunky jewelry/necklaces. Like necklaces with those big huge ball beads that almost look like candy:) that would be SO CUTE:)
2016-05-25 10:18:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to hell with ur friends
true friends would stick up for u no matter what happens in your life
i say go for it!
who cares if he's a freak, do u really like this guy or not?
best of luck
[pink sugar]
2007-02-10 22:35:11 · answer #6 · answered by ac2012 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just be friend to him as of now, i think that u both are still too young for a relationship!
2007-02-10 22:33:50 · answer #7 · answered by Precious Gracious 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friends to back off him, you don't appreciate them making fun of him. If they don't like that, get some new friends, making fun of people is wrong. You like him, so go for it!
2007-02-10 22:44:19 · answer #8 · answered by adriannamarie19 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
at the risk of sounding too grown up, your too young to date. you have the right idea to wait and he sounds like a troublemaker. be careful around him because he will mess you up.
2007-02-10 22:41:21 · answer #9 · answered by evil Hesh 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey beautiful,
you have to be nice to him as they say '' you cant judge a book by its cover'' dont judge him for what he looks like.......besides you said yourself that he is nice and all.....so there you gave yourself the answer you were looking for.....besides you could take things a step at a time..
good luck
2007-02-10 22:33:31 · answer #10 · answered by fatma 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋