Having no trust and not doing nothing wrong , but your partren has and you forgive and cant forget. An they think of what they have done you are to do the same. wow ???
2007-02-10 22:17:29 · 5 answers · asked by tfrazee71 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you can't forget what your spouse did to you - you haven't really forgiven them.
In order to keep love alive you have to be willing to grow. Naturally love will grow in a healthy relationship, you will love each other tomorrow then you do today. Love never stagnates and it never really dies. We can allow other things to come before it though, pushing it to the back burner. Once that happens then our own relationship dies.
You have to be willing to put love first - which means putting your partner first. Always. You can't focus on what happened in the past if you truly wish for it to continue. Ruminating about the past only causes more troubles - and pushes love out of the equation. Instead you end up with a relationship full of doubt, fear and hate.
2007-02-11 00:48:05 · answer #1 · answered by noncrazed 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if there is no trust in the relationship then there is no relationship. If your partner cheated or whatever and you forgave them the is the first step in repairing the relationship. For them to say that you should do the same is crazy, unless they intend to use it against you later.
From your 2 sentences I get the impression that you love them but their love for you is somewhat twisted. My friend, loving someone is an honor to the both of you and if he doesn't appreciate it; leave.
2007-02-11 06:28:17 · answer #2 · answered by codereaper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We don't have to, it automatic reserve a part in the heart. Obviously distance make feel stronger. I read somewhere that, there are only two stages of Love.
1. It always grows....
2. If it stopped growing, it will be killed instantly.
I think generally 1 works for all of us.
2007-02-11 06:23:45 · answer #3 · answered by Best Answer Provider 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its natural!!.
and be sure its natural because if you have tried to keep it alive its cosmetic and love is not cosmetic.
2007-02-11 06:21:40 · answer #4 · answered by replicable 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheats are lways going to be cheats.just becoz she has cheated on you, she thinks yoou will too/what a biach.my hubbyis like that too. see we have something in common. you are not alone my friend. the world is full of these a88 wholes.
2007-02-11 06:46:09 · answer #5 · answered by atahsina 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋