I've just caught up with my old gf after being overseas for many years. Since we broke up 12 years ago (my fault) she has been a lesbian, and now we have caught up it seems she still wants me and vice versa.
I'm single but she is married to another woman and have a baby (through donor). Do I allow her to bust up their relationship just to be with me or just disappear?
2007-02-10 21:59:03 · 14 answers · asked by amazed_lab_rat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
go for the threesome my friend.
dont need no drama with no baby daddy.
2007-02-11 02:55:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Most people don't consider a lesbian marriage legal anyways in fact 3/4 of the states in the US don't recognize a gay marriage and that they had a baby is really kind of sad you would have to ask your self if you want to be a father of someone elses child and if you would truly be happy together the baby should have a father figure but it's your choice.
2007-02-11 07:52:12 · answer #2 · answered by miester44 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't move backwards - move forwards. Not just for your sake - for their baby's too. She's not your gf any more. Think what a different person you are after 12 years. Think how you'd feel if you broke them up and them your rekindled relationship didn't work out. What a waste of heartbreak for everyone.
2007-02-11 06:03:08 · answer #3 · answered by chapwithwings 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Would you interfere in her relationship if she was involve with a man? Disappear!
2007-02-11 06:38:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you answered yourself, just disappear.
but you know, i really can't understand what you meant by "she married to another woman"
woman+woman= baby by through donor or any other way........it's not accptble talk
2007-02-11 06:07:01 · answer #5 · answered by peace 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need someone that can be trusted for a long term relationship.
What makes you think that she won't cheat on you too?
2007-02-11 06:05:36 · answer #6 · answered by Goddess of Laundry 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is confused.
Back off.
You don't want the drama.
Lets be honest here... This is one headache you really don't need.
2007-02-11 07:01:17 · answer #7 · answered by Dawn Davenport 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is MARRIED...she made a commitment to another person. Leave her alone!
2007-02-11 06:08:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would find someone else, why ruin a family. good luck
2007-02-11 06:16:35 · answer #9 · answered by kelsey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go find another woman, that girl can not be trusted
2007-02-11 06:01:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋