What if he called you b*tch all the time without you even provoking him to do so?What if he wouldn't stop?
2007-02-10 21:41:34 · 20 answers · asked by Direktor 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
there's a problem between the two of you, try to talk.
Communication is the most important between people.
It's not right to be called that all the time especially if you do nothing to receive that kind of 'treatment'
Good luck !
2007-02-10 21:45:11 · answer #1 · answered by BleedingAngelSecretWounds 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Check it Out: it has a name, it's called verbal/emotional abuse. go on line and punch in the key words. You will find check lists and my guess is that you will find he fits the description/s. Some sites also list certain signs that u may b exhibiting which will indicate whether u feel abused in the relationship. that "sticks & stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me" is major BS. Words HURT esp. when it's from the mouth of someone that u love. Words matter! they can be used to heal or to hurt, both very effectively. Print any research u find and ask him to read it. After all he sez that he really loves U right? I bet he sez that ur too sensitive 2 right? uhmm. Yep. been there. He can change but u will have to also. there are things that ur doing which allow him to get away with it. Most of us don't learn without consequences so allow him to have some. don't just take it. Do some research, educate urself. Grow, change, love urself! Link below helped my partner & I. He suffered sheer embarrassment when he had to read aloud stuff that he could not deny!
2007-02-11 06:06:52 · answer #2 · answered by KK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is derogatory to have you called that ''all the time''. Does he just use it casually, or is it like over any situations, without any provocation from your side ? Or does he love you loads, and its just used casually, or with no thoughts on that, like a habit ? You are the best judge of that, but somehow you really are not enjoying it. I have seen freinds, partners...who use that quite often, but do not literally mean it....but then again, its not fun to have you called b all the time.
You need to let him know you feel bad about it, and what is it that makes him call you all that. And take it from there....
good luck
P.s. I agree with domest goddess, though it may be a mean advise, still..it could probably break the habit..
2007-02-11 05:52:02 · answer #3 · answered by arya 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will stop that by not taking it?? who the hell wants to be with someone who call you such low name?? in a dictionary the word ***** means a dog.. are you a dog?? I have being with my husband almost 14 years we have done things to each other backwards and fowards but he never refer to me as a *****... you have to stand for your self you will not take this insults anymore this are ground for kicking him to the curve.. he is your husband and he should show you respect hold asss go away from him and when he ask you why?? you tell him I am not your ******** dog, so dont call me a bitchh ok... good luck.
2007-02-11 11:05:43 · answer #4 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys do this. I say it to myself about my girlfriend quite often and even think it but don't come right out and say it to their face.
Although, in my past marriages i've come right out and said it to my wives but it was at the very end of those marriages that i said it.
If you don't like this and there is no reason why you should, i'd sit down and tell him about it. If he won't stop then, perhaps you should consider ending the marriage at sometime in the near future.
2007-02-11 06:14:01 · answer #5 · answered by michael_trussell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! cuz i will never let him call me like that! in the house we don't practice bad words & trash talk!
talk to ur hubby nicely, tell him to stop calling u that cuz u don't like! and if in case he still wont stop, give him ultimatum! like try not to answer him when he call u, ignore him, jst do something like that!
2007-02-11 05:49:53 · answer #6 · answered by Precious Gracious 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't get bent out of shape. It's just a word, and only harms you if you let it. Lots of men call their wives B****es - for them it is a term of endearment
2007-02-11 06:11:06 · answer #7 · answered by amazed_lab_rat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No my hubby doesn't. If he did, I think I would put a stop to it right away...even when I get b!tchy, he just ignores it.
2007-02-11 05:50:48 · answer #8 · answered by chrissy757 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say it's time you start getting on your own two feet as far as living goes so you can tell him to kiss off. Don't you tolerate such disrespect because you should not be called that at all. Get a job, save some money. Don't put up with that.
2007-02-11 05:47:22 · answer #9 · answered by gentle understanding 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If at some point, the woman considered this to be okay and maybe even laughed with him about it, then it's time to put her foot down and tel him it bothers her.
If he does it out of te blue, on his own accord, then it's probably time for a divorce. This is one form of abuse called mental and emotional abuse. It's often a LOT more damaging than physical abuse. Wounds heal, but hurtful words last forever.
2007-02-11 05:48:00 · answer #10 · answered by ltygress 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no he has never called me that except when we are playing video games and insulting each other but thats just playing and ive called him a lot worse playing with him
2007-02-11 05:48:27 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋