if that dosen't happen are you going to find a new girl, but she telling me that she wants us to be together but she wants me to change some things
2007-02-10 21:14:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Can't you just love her and see where that leads .
2007-02-10 21:34:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a definate sign of problems waiting for you in any marriage or relationship you have with this one.
She has got it in her head that you are going to change. Which means you'll never be the perfect guy she wants you to be. She'll always have something she wants to change about you.
And she'll nag you to death on that subject which will cause very many bad feelings among the two of you in the future.
If she can't accept you now for who and what you are, then it's time to start looking for someone else.
Tell her she either accepts you for who and what you are or she can hit the road.
2007-02-11 06:23:32 · answer #2 · answered by michael_trussell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get so hooked up on time frames. Her question is valid. She's telling you that she might consider marriage and a child, but there are some things she want you to work on before she can say yes.
Hey, maybe there are things you can both work on.
2007-02-11 05:24:35 · answer #3 · answered by J F 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should take English lessons before you attempt to tell her anything. If you don't she probably won't understand a damn thing that you are saying!
2007-02-11 05:18:03 · answer #4 · answered by Guerrilla M 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It shows that she takes marriage seriously and that you need to work on somethings before she make that commitment. If you love her that much ask her what you need to do and get to work!
2007-02-11 05:17:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd tell you you are crazy and get out fast.
2007-02-11 05:55:54 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋