ive liked girl ( not saying her name) and ive liked her for about yr and half but she doesnt like me and no matter what i do i cant get over her. its hard for me to find another girl because there is only 115 kids at my school and stuff like that. any tips to help me get over her so i can move on with my life?
2007-02-10 21:08:42 · 5 answers · asked by confused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Concentrate on yourself. Appreciate the things YOU can do, the talents you possess. Go do things you like -- physical activities, eat foods you like, read good books and watch fun movies. Don't be afraid to speak up; individuals are interesting. Hang out with your friends. Explore your personality. The more self-confident you are, the happier you'll be with yourself -- and the male trait that attracts girls most is self-confidence, most of the time.
As for the girl side of things, there are 3 billion girls (well, females) in the world, and you WILL find someone you really like, probably more than one someone. I believe in relationship karma -- for every one one girl that doesn't like you *in that way*, there will be one that really, really does. So don't worry; things will fall into place, and take this time to have fun and feel comfortable in your own skin!
2007-02-10 21:16:45 · answer #1 · answered by jazzy girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem. Have you told her what you feel?
Because if you haven't, then I am sorry, but your an idiot! Tell her how you feel and what you want her to know. You'll never know what your capable of unless you try. And in the future, you do NOT want to look back and ask yourself, "What if?". What if you had the courage to tell her the things your longing to say to her. And what if she felt the same way. It is really frustating. The only advise advice I can give you at any rate is to tell her, face to face. And what best time to tell her than February 14?! You know what day it is right? Valentine's Day. Tell her or you'll never get peace. If you have already told her and still can't get her off your mind. Then tell her again and ask her to give you a chance. If you get dumped and you still can not get her off your head. I'd say your obsessed of her. Obsession is not good, get a hobby, do a roadtrip, travel with friends, spend time with people as much as possible or get a pet.
"Live while your still alive, there is an eternity to spend sleeping when your dead."
Hope I helped. Good luck.
-omni
2007-02-11 05:23:38 · answer #2 · answered by phistrong 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Giving up on a girl when she haunts your mind is very difficult, but for sure i can tell you dat the solution wouldn't be finding another girl. First, you have to find interests, do things in your spare time so that you won't be bugging your mind on her. Find friends and go out, be open to all things that happen. Slowly your mind will focus on itself and you will see that you'll be thinking about her always less often.
2007-02-11 05:15:34 · answer #3 · answered by Ningishzidda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about better things in life
maybe frnds or ur studies
2007-02-11 05:17:33 · answer #4 · answered by shruti d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
too long question.
2007-02-11 05:19:55 · answer #5 · answered by rahul 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋