how do u know is de guy a homo?
2007-02-10 20:49:56 · 17 answers · asked by Doug T 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Dude, you can't tell if de person is gay by looking at them. A smart, perceptive person can usually get a signal and feel by talking to and getting to know the person. Many people are dumb and clueless and are lucky to be able to put their pants on. Tell me which of de two categories do you think that I think you fit into.
2007-02-10 21:15:12 · answer #1 · answered by DawnDavenport 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some maybe by body expressions, or they come out and tell you.
I would have always guessed by their body expressions.
But boy was I wrong.
Here is a story why I give this answer :
(Myself not caring if they are gay or not) I worked at this cafe once and this man was real nice, took me under his wing (as a few older ladies were so rude to me).
I was always friendly easy to work with but not these ladies and the more I talk to my new friend, no more they detested me.
Then one night we go out for coffee, to find out this gentleman was gay and the other waiter that came alone was his partner.
Never did I see it coming. They never showed one sign of even being a couple never alone they were gay.
20 years later and we still or friends (sad to say one has passed on due to cancer).
2007-02-11 05:07:00 · answer #2 · answered by Bluelady... 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is engaged in sex or similar physical intimacy with another man.
That's pretty much the only way to know for sure. Everything else is a stereotype, and worse, lots of straight men fit those stereotypes (feminine guys, metrosexuals, etc., etc.). Even the whole having-sex-with-a-guy thing isn't quite going to cut it; he could still be bisexual.
When will people get it through their heads that the only thing that truly means you're gay is if you are attracted to the same sex- and that's not something you can see!
2007-02-11 04:56:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant. I could walk up to you and do everything I can think to act gay(whatever that means) it still would not be true. I will tell you another thing a lot og gay men work out and have serious muscle. I saw 2 in san diego I swear thes guys looked like they coould bench press a buick. had i been inclined to verbally assault them with unsavory remarks they would have killed me. ok so how did I know they were gay, well it fairly evident because they were holding hands and they kissed. You cannot judge a book by its cover. I'm not a homophobe but you might be surprised at how many gay men you actually know personally
oh and there is something out there called metrosexual(is that right) anyway these guys are straight but pretend to be gay. for what purpose i haven't a clue.
2007-02-11 05:01:42 · answer #4 · answered by molly 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
look down. he's the one you're letting s*ck you off.
there is no answer to your question. because you can't identify a gay person unless you are having sex with them. question, how do you physically identify a straight person?
you're a small minded bigot, who is quite probably a red-neck as well. why is it that you are so fearful? i wouldn't worry, most gay people would have the sense to stay away from idiots like you. is it because you can't identify them as soon as you look at them? the intruder within, you wouldn't be out of place in the 1920's.
'the reds are coming, the reds are comming'... freak
2007-02-11 05:11:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are pretty easy to spot. Males more so than females. Males tend to be a little feminine. Sometimes, the females are a little masculine. Generally it's easy to see as it's a sickness and sickness is obvious to recognize.
It's my opinion, and the opinion of much of science that homosexuality is a sickness, not an adaptation. It's a sickness equal to pedophilia and other sexual perversions that are contradictory to a moral and civilized society, and thus is not compatible with such. It only has become more socially acceptable in today's atmosphere of liberalism that pushes for all things to be acceptable. I believe this acceptance will be short lived as how can a sickness be accepted as normal in a normal society!
2007-02-11 04:56:41 · answer #6 · answered by Billy 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
you can't. the way style is going these days its very normal for straight ment to have the "metrosexual" style of dress. thats just whats in right now. Even if you think a guy is feminine or masculine, that has nothing to do with his sexual orientation. there are very masculine guys who are gay and very feminine guys who are straight.
2007-02-11 04:55:22 · answer #7 · answered by Sleepyguy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I tell it by the way they speak, and how they walk and move, also if they hang out with a lot of girls and don't seem to have any guy friends, when he dresses very nice and when he really cares about fashion.
2007-02-11 04:54:40 · answer #8 · answered by FaceFullofFashion 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He asks questions online about how to identify a homosexual physically.
2007-02-11 06:55:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude,
Get real. Gay and Bi men have sex with men. Unless you "see" this or they tell you they are gay, you're just wasting your time.
2007-02-11 05:06:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋