2007-02-10 20:21:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Are all narcissitic(fancy word for chronically self centered) individuals parents? The reason I ask is because today it's the new fad word. I'm seeing self-absorbed individuals labeling individuals with their own behavior. I'm seeing self-obsorbed people not owning up to their behavior towards other people.....it's a mess. Better to stop labeling and start dealing -how ever that may be - before the world takes you off onto a new fad or excuse.
2007-02-10 22:48:57 · answer #1 · answered by GoodQuestion 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're not the one with the problem, your mom is. No emotionally fragile teenaged girl should have to suffer with all that. It's not normal, in fact it's considered child abuse. You could: - Get a lock for your bedroom door - Show her (print out) a standard weight chart from internet, that you are at the right weight. She'll want to start an argument, so better to circle the weight that applies to you and leave it on her dresser or somewhere. - Contact Child and Family Services, tell them you are being severely abused and that it's affecting you mentally including your school work. Be prepared to be sent to a foster family. Many are wonderful but others are not. - Go to a dr, tell him you are miserable, depressed and suicidal and NEED antidepressants. Every day you should take one and stir one into your mom's coffee or smoothie or something. She probably needs them too. Or she could be going thru menopause which is horrible; she has no control over her emotions. - If mom begs you to stay or threatens to beat you if you leave, say you will not stay until she gets `a doctor's help from her severe mental/emotional problems by telling them everything. It should be obvious to her that keeping emotions bottled up is harmful. btw: if you have to keep your feelings bottled up, why doesn't she. Ask her that. haha But meds can do only so much. God is the ONLY one who knows what you’re thinking, how you’ve struggled and what you’re going thru. He loves you passionately and wants to be your BFF. He has a super-deluxe custom-made plan for your life that’s beyond anything you ever dreamed of. BUT He waits for us to ask. Invite Him into your heart; ask Him to take over your life and your problems. Find a big, happy church, join some groups and have fun. Talk with the pastor or youth pastor; he probably deals with this a lot and will have some good ideas. He probably knows families that would love to take in a girl like you. Peace at last. God loves you more than you can possibly imagine :)
2016-05-25 09:54:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Worse.
2007-02-10 20:24:27 · answer #3 · answered by Yvonne Mystic 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Believe me, they get worse.
So it's kinda so soothing that you can live on your own
when you grow up. You don't want to talk to them.
There are lots of parents who gets worse.
Reason why there are full of stories like that on CSI and etc.
2007-02-10 20:47:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Worse. However, as time is passing, you can do more things and save yourself from them.
2007-02-10 21:38:49 · answer #5 · answered by Wintermute 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
BETTER USUALLY
2007-02-10 20:26:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋