Hello.
I am a 23 year old guy (I'm white). I am student in University (last year).
Do you think it is normal that at my age I am thinking of staying a virgin all my life? I was thinking of this because of problems like girls not liking me and MORE: I don't even know how to make friends with girls (I never had a girl that I considered a friend of mine... I only had a girlfriend until now, she was good as I wanted, but this is not the point, she was an exception and it's in the past. I only wanted to find a girl that likes me, and she was that girl. I don't expect anything from them.).
I am not trying to find a way to make friends with girls (or with other males as a matter of fact).
I am just asking you: is it possible to do what I wrote above? (...staying virgin all my life, finding a job, an apartment where to live, just a few friends whom I meet very few times a year, you add here whatever you think is necessary for me)
Is it possible to do this?
Help me, please.
Thank you very much
2007-02-10 20:03:23 · 11 answers · asked by will i succeed 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I don't know how to make friends with girls. I don't even believe that I, as a person, am able to be a friend with a girl... I don't know why. Maybe I am just used with this, but I don't know what are some good ways of making friends with someone, but with girls especially (befriending them, or how you want to call this thing).
How are friends supposed to be one with another? What are they supposed to do? I don't know. And as another thing that complicates it, it is much different in opposite gender friendships, then in same-sex friendships.
2007-02-10 20:09:29 · update #1
WILL I SUCCEED?
2007-02-10 20:18:26 · update #2
I don't want to date anyone, I just want to have a job so that I can live alone and with no friends, nobody to make me sad or disappoint me, go to sleep at 9.30, wake up at 7.00, buy alcohol and also food, and not annoying anyone, in any way, ever.
Please help me with an advice.
2007-02-10 20:24:34 · update #3
It is possible.
But it's not what you want and probably not how things will work out. Just relax and keep your mind and heart open.
2007-02-10 20:07:18 · answer #1 · answered by tony1athome 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A priest might have the answer to that. If that's what you set your mind to, I'm sure it can be done, but why set your mind to it??? Maybe you should talk to a psychologist about your lack of interest in friendships and romantic relationships. Not having sex is one thing, but having no relationship other then a few friends that you see very few times a year is a lonely way to live!
2007-02-18 13:53:50 · answer #2 · answered by yentruoc311 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not that it is impossible, but when you grow older and meet new people and all those new people around you are getting married and having children, it will influence you to want to do the same thing, but by that time it might be too late. I'm not saying it is impossible, but you might like to think twice before you consider staying single and a virgin all your life. Hope that helps~! Good luck!!
2007-02-11 04:10:04 · answer #3 · answered by Angel in Practice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that your desire to close yourself off from the world is that you have no belief in yourself. No-one would choose that path except as a consolation prize. Who are you trying to convince you or the rest of the world. I think it may be you. Get out there dammit and live. There are a great bunch of girls out there just wanting to meet you. Have a little courage and get out there and live. Sex is not the world but it is a benchmark in life. You sound a great guy, with lots to offer. Don't pretend that you chose second place. It ain't easy but its life. More than good luck, take your life in your hands and LIVE IT.
2007-02-17 04:25:11 · answer #4 · answered by ehmjt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL DEAR YOU ARE ONE OF A KIND .if you want to stay a viegin the rest of your life go for it .you live your life the way you want to .it is your life .yes you can do this . but it might not seem like it right now but one day you well find some one .when you talk to women just be nice we don,t bite we like to be loved just like you men do .hey women have a hard time talking to men some times to we are all just human .and be live it or not married people and couples get lonely to. but remember life is what we make it and god only gave us one chance . you sound like a nice guy so i hope you find what you want out of life . hope this helps you . best of luck
2007-02-19 00:26:53 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to do it then go for it.
But humans are social beings and its important for most people to have some sort of interaction with other humans every day... I don't think that talking to the clerk at the grocery store counts.
If you think it would make you happy and content please go for it and i wish you all the best.
2007-02-18 08:50:33 · answer #6 · answered by ice_ice_baby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im 40 female. divorced after 20 years.. living with a man now, wishing i were still a virgin.. if i were still a virgin, id walk around like my s hit didnt stink... if you really want to stay a virgin stay one. youll be just as cool as anyone esle if not cooler..
2007-02-11 04:12:25 · answer #7 · answered by wv_country_princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some psychological counseling.
2007-02-19 00:25:45 · answer #8 · answered by annazzz1966 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
are u gay don't u love pussy u pussy get a life or is it that u like cock and what and what kind .
2007-02-18 23:11:18 · answer #9 · answered by heartbreaker 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you can do whatever you set your mind to do. peace
2007-02-11 04:06:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋