It's a really random question. I'm not even pregnant or married. It happened in a movie and I am just curious as to how a couple would survive this? (after getting married b/c pregnant then losing the baby) Has anyone had or known of someone with a similar experience? Do you think a marriage could last through something like that?
2007-02-10 19:26:49 · 10 answers · asked by Amanda 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I understand that miscarriags are common. I was just curious if anyone had experienced the particular scenario I listed in the question. I know miscarriages are common. Please quit telling me this. Thanks.
2007-02-11 05:38:42 · update #1
if you get married because of a pregnancy, the marriage is probably not going to last anyway. if the couple were planning on marriage anyway, then it might work, but not if it wasn't a planned-to-do-in-the-future thing.
2007-02-10 19:31:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had 2 miscarriage and my husband and I are still together, why wouldn't you be? It's something in live that happens and life still goes on. In the beginning it was hard only because I was depressed, he was upset as well. We both knew It had to have happened for a reason and no rush we waited and had a healthy baby boy 1yr later.
I don't believe that anyone should just get married b/c you have a baby, it rarely ever works out.
2007-02-11 03:48:45 · answer #2 · answered by ompie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If that is the only thing holding the marriage together then I feel bad for the couple, don't get married because you are pregnant get married because they are the person you love. As I learned when I was young don't get involved with anyone you wouldn't marry.
2007-02-11 03:31:25 · answer #3 · answered by whattheheck 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest.....the misscarraige might have been due to the stress of marraige and the new life ahead. The marraige if true enough would survive. If not a divorce would happen. But I would assume that the movie did that part just because it is a movie and would add drama to the flick.
2007-02-11 03:32:01 · answer #4 · answered by kataklysmkamel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I concur with the 'miscarriages happen frequently...'
In the scenario you describe, though, it might not be all that common. The overwhelming majority happen in the first twelve weeks, so -- that'd be quite the race to the altar, if that follows.
2007-02-11 06:17:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have had a miscarriage with my partner who im now married too, we now have 2 little boys tho. It is hard to deal with but u just support each other you never forget but it gets easier with time
2007-02-11 04:58:40 · answer #6 · answered by AMANDA G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in "real" life it could be that the guy was leaving! soo she had to fake a pregnancy! to keep her man...then got married and had a miscarriage b.c there was no baby to begin with..she just wanted to keep her man! h appened to my husband but they didnt get married!
2007-02-11 03:39:35 · answer #7 · answered by BaZ 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That's just another reason why people shouldn't get married just b/c they are having a baby.
2007-02-11 03:46:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Billions of marriages have lasted through miscarriages.
Miscarriages happen more frequently than I think you understand.
2007-02-11 03:30:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
nope not me almost tho.
2007-02-11 03:28:45 · answer #10 · answered by Boo! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋