end up pushing the people we most care about, away. Is it for fear of something, or is it for the better. How to stop it?
2007-02-10 19:00:21 · 5 answers · asked by ☼ Latina Loca loves Yayo ☼ 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I know I do it, because I'm afraid of getting hurt, so if I run before that happens, then I won't get hurt. I don't want to contiue this anymore!
2007-02-10 19:09:00 · update #1
it's because there is some similar experience we have lived before and our subconsious doesn't want us to go through it again because of fear of getting hurt...to stop that you have to see clearly what the real problem inside you is
2007-02-10 19:08:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
can't sometimes its a built in instinct that tells us to run for our lives..something deep down inside is warning you that something isnt right.. heed the advice and beware when this early warning system doesn't go off sometimes it should but doesn't just be careful ..
2007-02-11 03:03:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it just happens that way when others push you away then the tables can turn.
2007-02-11 03:04:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know how to stop it--however i think a lot of people self sabatage (sp?) relationships because of guilt or feelings they have of inserperiority(sp) they have themselves...i dont know how to stop it--
all i can tell you is this... treat others how you want to be treated,,,,,what comes around goes around.....do a selfless act of kindness as often as possible and you should be ok....
be blessed
2007-02-11 03:12:51 · answer #4 · answered by Aero-Smith 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im with you on this one. I do it...
2007-02-11 03:06:54 · answer #5 · answered by Crossed Palms 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋