OK, heres the Deal. My best friend has a pretty big family. And he has this couson who I have known for a while and is my good friend also. I am a guy and all 3 of us r 14 years old. My best friend is a guy and his couson a girl. I have known both of them for about 3 years now. I think i like her. We hang out alot and i think I kinda like her. Now if I tell her or my friend this could ruin my friendship with both of them. Who do I tell and when. I know u will say "if he is your true friend it wont matter" but Im not sure I kinda think it will. Plz help. I contribute to your question Yahoo community now help with mine.
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2007-02-10 18:10:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just tell him and her. It can break someones heart having feeling welled up inside. (In this case, ur heart.) So just go ahead and tell both of them. It feels good to have feelings known, rather than a bottle of shook-up coke in ur stomach. So, just do it!!!! Good Luck!!!!!
2007-02-10 19:13:22 · answer #1 · answered by aethermist5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok this happened to my brother and one of his friends and my girl cousin..my brother was cool with the fact that his friend liked our cousin..it won't ruin a friendship it'll just bring more understanding between the 3 of you. PS the guy talked to our cousin first to see if she liked him and everything worked out and everything is cool between the 3 of them..
2007-02-17 01:00:59 · answer #2 · answered by angelpepsi22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I won't ignore spelling and grammar - why don't you be less lazy and that is root of your other problem - you're too lazy to find a girl who is interesting to you outside this ALMOST incestuous relationship you want to have with this girl - THERE ARE LOADS OF GIRLS IN THE WORLD - FIND ONE WHO WON'T COMPLICATE THE FRIENDSHIPS ALREADY - it just requires a bit of effort on your part - I bet you're american - that would be about right from the vernacular of your question ?
2007-02-10 18:18:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you're not willing to risk you should try talking to them about the subject but not with you as a potential boyfriend ..just in general see how they react ,but you can be sure sooner or later one of them will see it,that relationship doesn't really have to ruin your friendship..but it usually does..I know that cause I've been through it myself
2007-02-10 18:19:31 · answer #4 · answered by faqmhighhills 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may desire to slowly withdraw your self from her draw close. Slowly initiate making acquaintances with different persons and quit spending time together with her. in case you are attempting this abruptly that is going to in basic terms reason her to retaliate which will in basic terms make your existence worse. constantly be severe high quality to her to her face and in the back of her lower back, do no longer supply all of us else reason to think of which you are the reason for the priority. do no longer stick in there thinking that that's in basic terms a piece she is going with the aid of simply by fact she is a young person. people like this by no ability exchange. this is a powertrip for her to push you around simply by fact deep down she is truly insecure and valuable likes to purpose to regulate you and your thoughts simply by fact she has no administration over her very own self.
2016-09-28 23:00:03 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her out for a casual cup of coffee or movie or something, see how she reacts and then take the next step. if she is hesitatant then tell her that u meant all three of u and if she says yes, then ur on...
all trhe best dude
2007-02-10 18:57:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought I was in love with me guy cousin once and I would dream about him and I just thought he was hot. Then I grew up and everyone was hot.
2007-02-10 18:17:00 · answer #7 · answered by karena k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To tell you the truth, you should maybe talk to your friend first and see if he is okay with it. And then talk to the girl.
2007-02-10 18:15:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell her, u never kno she might like you. And if she does coolie, if not ask her not to say anything to her cousin.
2007-02-16 22:19:51 · answer #9 · answered by Mariah Baybee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u like her cousin,just go on coz no matter ur friend like or has any love feeling at u...don't worry,life must go on...
2007-02-18 18:11:42 · answer #10 · answered by _ej_ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋