would it be wrong of me to send my ex an email an tell him how i feel to see if there is any chnce for us before i move on??
i still love him
we have been apart for nearly a year. is it too late???
and should i tell him all my feelings or just come out and ask simply if hed give us another chance???
we have had contact over the year and he has been driving past my house but he said it was coz he was worried bout me....
we were together for 4.5 years he is 30 and i am 23.
we broke up coz we started fighting over stupid little things
2007-02-10 18:02:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
don't email him.
Send him an old fashioned VALENTINE'S DAY CARD.
he's still into you if he's doing drive by's.
is he stalking you?
I would just email and ask him if he wants to get together for old time's sake.
keep it short and simple and if he says yes, then tell him about your feelings when you meet in person.
emails can be read wrong.
so do it in person.
it's a great time to send an old love a VALENTINE'S DAY CARD!
and it won't seem to freaky!!
just say, i'm still into you!! if you think of me, call me and put your phone number down.
if he doesn't call in a week forget him!!!
2007-02-10 18:08:33 · answer #1 · answered by Lilly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you still love him, I think you should email him to let him know that you still love him. What are the little things that cause your breakup? If they can pull appart a relationship that is 4.5 years in the making, I don't think they are little. They may be hiding something big. These are what you both must talk about and find out before getting together or else you both will be hurt all over again.
If he is not interested, then move on. But I think you should be prepared for this rejection if it comes at all. The pain will be re-opened but it won't be like before because you are ready for it.
I'm currently broken-hearted by a 2-week relationship... yours seemed like a lifetime to me so the emotions must be so much more. Good luck to you!
2007-02-11 02:22:37 · answer #2 · answered by Nebby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want a realationship to work you have to work at it. the little things always pop up clothes on the floor, dishes in the sink, shoes in the hallway, bills not paid, what ever it is will work itself out if you work at the realationship.
In these times people just give up when things get hard or something is not going right. you want him back don't send an E-Mail, don't call him, don't wait till Valentines day, you get you butt up you go to him and you tell him from the heart how you feel one of 2 things will happen 1. he'll tell you to forget it and move on ......OR 2. He'll tell you haow he feels and then you'll talk. it won't be easy feelings will get hurt but remember WORK at it make it work .
2007-02-11 02:30:29 · answer #3 · answered by NRG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can contact him, tell him how you feel, and hopefully he will tell you how he feels. If you decide to get back together, try counseling, if it was only little things... 4.5 years is a while to be with someone...
If he says he doesn't want to be together, be prepared for that too... and then try to move on...
2007-02-11 02:07:53 · answer #4 · answered by joulesofaffection 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel about him. I hope things work out for you.
2007-02-11 02:07:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel, if he is driving by your house it is obvious that he still cares.
2007-02-11 03:41:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋