what does it mean when a guy talks about other girls in front of all the time?

Question

Talks about his ex especially...

Well...i talked abt dis hot guy to him once n he asked if i wanted him to hook me up w/ da hot guy....

Answer 1

Isn't dating the arena for talking to each other about each other? Flaunting interest in other people seems like a good way to bolster your low self-esteem by demeaning your current partner. Sounds like a waste of time and effort. How can this be fun?
Make it clear that you want to date and not play silly games.

Answer 2

well.. First thing, people here (or anywhere else for that matter) can't really give you the best answer possible because you probably know more about what is going on between you two then anybody else. We can only answer to what you tell us and what we guess or imagine from our own experience.

First, he might just be showing off to make himself feel better, guys like to do that.. a lot.

Second, he may be trying to let you know something, (like how he is into all these girls or something) and is hoping to start something with you.

Or he may just be stating some facts/opinions that really have nothing to do with you.

Well, he might be talking about his ex, well... because she was his ex and they had a relationship and if it was a real one, it is hard to just let go. or he may be trying to find out what you like/dislike so that he can change to better impress you or make you like him.

And offering to hook you up with this hot guy.. he could just be trying to be nice, or if he really liked you, he may be trying to make you happy. Or trying to make it so that you would not like this "hot guy" you talked about so much and like him instead.

In the end, there are several possibilities, and only you can have the best idea which one it can be from all of them..

and what I recommend you do, is find out what he thinks and why he does that. One possibility is to see how he reacts when you talk about other guys. (even if he laughs it off, he may be hiding his true feelings, its hard to know, but if you know him pretty well, you can tell). Or you can just straight out ask him why he talks so much about his ex with you (he might talk about her with other close friends), and say you are a little confused.

And since you know this person best, you probably know what is the best thing to do.

Answer 3

He may not be in to you and think of you as a friend or he may really like you and be trying to make you jealous. Talk about really hot guys in front of him and see how he reacts. If he laughs it off, he's just a friend. If he gets defensive or acts uncomfortable, he's got it bad 4 you!

Answer 4

He could have low self esteem and by talking about other women he thinks he is making himself more desirable to you. I think allot of these men who brag to much are just that full of tall tells. Tell him that you don't like it and that You'd rather be with a man with a little less experience. And see if that helps.

Answer 5

go talk to the school Counselor about it. they will talk to that teacher and seating arrangements may be changed... you should not have to deal with that stuff... no one will know you discussed this with the counselor. best of luck :) (mother of a 14 year old dealing girl dealing with same issues)

Answer 6

he has either got a huge ego and thinks he's one of the lads, or he has serious issues. My partner talked about his ex for a long time because she always put him down and was physically abusive. Try to talk to him about it - see if he can open up to you.

Answer 7

This guy is just simply not over his ex. Be careful not to be his "rebound."

Answer 8

id say He's very disrespectful of you, and why are you settling for that, you deserve better,if he loves and cares for you, he wouldn't do that kind of stuff, dint stand for it or you'll-get walked all over always.good luck and god bless

Answer 9

means hes very unsure about his masculinity. lol

Answer 10

guys get wrong ideas sometimes