Fat, 15 and gay?

Question

I have a few pounds extra.
Dont kudge the Holidays wear like a few weeks ago...lol
Im not gorgeous but Im not a monster.
Im 15 and it sucks being the on;y one without a boyfriend...
I all the gay teens I meet seem to be out of a catalog of some sort.
I really dont care what people think about me but it sucks to be alone...
what do I do?

Answer 1

You're 15. YOU CAN WAIT!! It's more important to get your education and career goals set. Romance shouldn't be a priority right now for anyone under 17. Life will get harder and more demanding when you leave home and you need to be well prepared for it. Having some boyfriend or girlfriend to hang around will not teach you what you need to know to get your bills paid.

Answer 2

Hey dude,

For health reasons you might want to think about staying in better shape. At 15 it's easy to eat healthy and exercise. When you trim down a bit and feel good about yourself the guys will appreciate you more...not because you're thin, but simply because you're healthier.

These are my simple rules for eating:

Morning: cereal with low fat milk or Yogurt and fruit
10:00 a.m - a snack (apple)
Lunch: rice or pasta
16:00 - snack again - fruit or raisins or nuts
Dinner - chicken breast or other meat cooked on a grill, salad

Drink 3 liters of water a day. Don't drink too much soda and sugary crap like that

You can take 1 day a week and eat anything you want. Like ice cream, cookies etc. This helps your mind and body ...really.

You should do an hour of exercise every day. You choose your favorite activity.

Good luck !

Answer 3

Well ur 15.Don"t worry about it.Life is like that.You'll find someone thats right and i k it sucks to be alone because I've been at that stage but you have a whole lifetime to find the true one.Don"t worry about it.Live life.Plus its a lot harder to have a bf nowadays.Lots of cash.I remember my last relationship.If i add it up it probably cost about over a million dollars.Lol .Just adding some humor.Anyway trust me relationships are alright but not necessary in your age.You'll definitely find the one.

Oh yeah about that overweight thing.Don't worry.I mean don't think eating Macdonald everyday is alright but just be okay with yourself.If you want to lose weight then play some sports.There fun and you'll lose weight at the same time.Later and Good Luck.

Answer 4

Well kid, put a smile on your face and start working out! :) If you don't like being "fat" (which there's nothing wrong carrying a few extra pounds) then do something about it! A easy CHEAP way to lose weight is to put some dance music on and just dance around your room for about 30 minutes each day. It'll get your heart pumping and you'll be burning calories, plus you'll be practicing those dance moves for when you're old enough to hit the club. ;) Just watch what you eat and try to "think healthy", don't give up and you'll be attracting those "catalog" boys in no time!

Remember to surround yourself with great friends and remember that a boyfriend does not define who you are! *hug* Keep your head up!

Answer 5

Hey - you will meet guys and things will turn around for you! My advice is to get on the treadmill and avoid junk food. You should drop the pounds because you might feel more confident and we all know that most guys care about how the body looks. Sad, but true. I am sure you have the right personality, so just get some cardiovascular and pretty soon, those gay guys will notice you. Don't be lonely - get out there!
I have reported anyone who has disrespected your question here on Yahoo!

Answer 6

I'm 15 and a bit chubby my self. Nothin to be ashamed of but when it comes to being young lookin for some one it can be hard and you might find impersonates or people scolding you if you post a question about it since on yahoo and stuff there are mainly older guys

Answer 7

I hate to be the harbinger of bad news, but if you do not take the bull by the horns, loose the weight and get to working out, you are going to severely limit the boys/men who are going to be attracted to you. And at 15, that is NOT a very wise move to make. You can say it is everyone else's problem with bad perception of chunky, but it matters not, for it is you that will have a greater chance of remaining lonely if you do not take action now...and you can certainly do that. Everyone has the ability to shape themselves as they want to be shaped...you are no exception. No one said it will be easy, but I will tell you, I certainly remember tooooooo well being your age and being painfully skinny! So much so that it greatly limited who I could go out with. DO not let this happen to you, for how you feel as you are a teenager will be how you feel for the rest of your life! Become the man of your dreams and that will be how you will see yourself from now on...not a bad trade off, no matter how you look at it.

Answer 8

Just be yourself. Do you enjoy the way you are right now, or do you want to change? There's plenty of guys who are fine with overweight guys. Heck, some even prefer it!

If are unhappy, then the best thing to do would be to lose weight. It isn't impossible, and it's a good thing to do young. Join a gym and learn how to get lean and muscular (No, it's not in the machines or bicep curls.)

Answer 9

Find some real friends that will like you unconditionally. They are there , keep looking . Join a club or sport at school. Ask your mom or dad or uncle to spend time with you. That's not easy, most adults are willin g to help.
Call upon Jesus. He loves you deeply and personally. He is real.

Answer 10

everyone feels alone at the age of 15 honey, and your body is still developing. In the future you will find being single equatable to havin a sort of freedom .....................anyways chin up!