Well me and my girlfriend were talking and we think its time we take it to the next level ( kissing and stuff ), so this will be my first kiss, exactly how do i go at it? is there a certain way to do it? Anything would be helpfull.
2007-02-10 17:27:06 · 7 answers · asked by The Con 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Is it different to kiss a boy or girl?
( im bi )
2007-02-10 17:27:30 · update #1
Ms. RKO was right.... Most first kisses ARE horrible. I had this thought of how my first kiss would be and it turned out the complete opposite.... It was so disgusting. (way too wet and my partner used way too much tongue)
As some tips... just go really slow at first and make the moment last as long as it can (I'm not saying make out for two hours... I'm saying make it feel that you GF wants more) To do this, your lips should be really soft (don't pucker up)... definitely don't use too much tongue (don't gag her with it) if you want to use your tonge, then you should keep it mostly to the outside of her mouth (slowly lick her lips or the tip of her tongue with the tip of your tongue... and don't use a whole lot of saliva) The most important thing though is SWALLOW YOUR SALIVA..... again.... SWALLOW YOUR SALIVA!!!!! It is so gross when you are drooling... your GF will get really turned off by it (trust me from 1st hand experience) Hold her around her waist (don't rest your hands on her hips, make sure you hold her close to you... it makes her feel that you are connected... that's really important for a girl) or hold her at the back of her neck.
As for the kissing styles of girls and guys... It can be very difficult to kiss a member of the opposite sex... the reason: you have two very different ways of thinking.... Guys usually have the same types of personalities/ mentalities so if two gay guys kiss it will be somewhat easier to tell what the other person likes since you (as a guy) know what feels good to you... whereas girls have a WAY different way of thinking than guys... if you like something done to you a certain way when kissing, most likely the girly will not like it as much as you...
Good luck!!!!
2007-02-10 18:42:09 · answer #1 · answered by make love not war 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This website might have some good kissing tips for you:
http://www.thekiss.com/
As for whether men and women kiss differently, well, I hear different things. All people are individuals and kiss differently, but some people say that men kiss more forcefully, whereas women's mouths are softer and kiss more tenderly. I personally think it all depends on the particular person.
Good luck and happy smooches!
2007-02-11 01:32:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Kissing is disgusting! Mouth bacteria and all kinds of nasty bugs get transferred from one person to another not to mention cold sore viruses and so on. Stick with holding hands. You won't get mono that way!
2007-02-11 01:35:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
It's easy for me though. Just check ehow.com to learn how to kiss. Heh heh.
2007-02-11 05:38:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most first kisses are HORRIBLE. I know mine was.
2007-02-11 01:42:19 · answer #5 · answered by .:AMIZZLE:. 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
practice baby just practice try something different any time
2007-02-11 02:01:37 · answer #6 · answered by CCA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'll know what to do...trust me.
2007-02-11 01:31:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋