I have 2 friends. One is 22 and the other is 24. The one that is 22 is with this girl who wont have sex until she's married. He asked her to marry him and she said yes. They have been together for 2 years. My other friend is 24 and him and his girlfriend do it all the time. They have been together for 5 years. The other day she asked me when he was going to propose and I knew why but didn't want to hurt her feelings. If a woman wants to get married should she have premarital sex?
2007-02-10 17:22:09 · 25 answers · asked by J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
wow and I was just up debating if I'm stupid for not having sex with my boyfriend. Thanks for re-motivating me :-)
2007-02-10 17:26:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Devoice is declining and so is marriage. More men and women are choosing to live together than get married. Looking at these trends women in general women will not be waiting to get married to have sex at least not in this country. Finding women with no past sexual history is like finding a needle in a haystack. A woman's sexual past will affect very little a man's choice to propose to her if he loves her and wants to marry her.
As for your friend that has not intention of proposing is just using this lady for his personal pleasure. This guy has no honor and just using her for fun while leading her on. It is no a reflection on her that she choose to have premarital sex. She loves him and he must be telling her the same if she thinks it is possible he will pop the question.
2007-02-10 17:58:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
So you are saying that a women is not fit for marriage if she has had pre-martial sex. Please, do use all a favor and wake up, you have forgotten it is 2007.
In a true relationship, a man does not care about the women's past. What he cares about is her future, and their future together. Truly happy couples have a well rounded relationship, and sex is only part of that.
If your friend is not marrying her b/c they have had pre-material sex, then he's really not into her as a whole.
A man should not marry a women b/c he wants to have sex with her, and she is pure compared to others. That is bad. Sex gets mundane in a relationship after awhile and other traits being to dominate.
Getting married to have sex is what people did in the 1700/1800's and if you look at history you will see the dysfunction that brings to marriages.
2007-02-10 17:55:47 · answer #3 · answered by Answer Girl 2007 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Because women like sex. I live with my lover and have for the last 2 years, we have pre-marital sex all the time and our wedding is being planned as I type. It's not sex that's the problem with your friend. People shouldn't get married just for sex anyways. That's a really bad idea. Sex is just sex. It feels good. The end.
If a woman wants to get married, she should make sure she's with a man who wants the same things in life.
2007-02-10 17:30:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
It all depends on their beliefs (religious) and the way they were brought up by their parents. Some women have premarital sex and get married and live happily ever after and some women stay virgins until they get married and they don't live happily ever after...it's up to each and every woman to do what she feels like doing and there are men who would marry a non-virgin too.
2007-02-10 17:28:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is an interesting question.
But it's like you're saying that if women don't have premarital sex, then the men are more likely to marry them.... the problem I have with this (if this is what you're saying) is that in that case, then it's as if the guy is only marrying her FOR sex.... and that's just wrong to me. I would prefer to engage in premarital sex than to be married to a guy who married me just for sex.
2007-02-10 17:27:11 · answer #6 · answered by ♪ ♥ ♪ ♥ 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I had premarital sex for two years with the man who has been my husband these past 8 years. It is more about the rest of the relationship as far as whether two people will commit legally or not.
2007-02-10 17:27:23 · answer #7 · answered by Phartzalot 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Thats stupid. Thats like holding all Irish human beings (like me) love eating potatoes (I do nonetheless) lol. No ALL women human beings do not. yet maximum folk of persons both men and woman has experienced sexual sex by technique of the age of 18. If that's quite significant to then you definitely I propose assembly woman at places of mutual pastime and values which includes church, church purposes or libraries, J/ok. There are virgin adults accessible, you at the instantaneous are not on my own. it should be a disgrace nonetheless to omit out on an exceptionally good significant different or mate in basic terms because they were not a virgin. eh both way, good success.
2016-11-27 00:03:28 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does premarital sex have to do with anything ? Why would I want to marry somebody whos only interest in marriage was to get in my pants ? That is the stupidest thing I have ever heard !
2007-02-10 17:37:09 · answer #9 · answered by RedHairedTempest 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
i would make a bet, that if all women refused sex to all men until marriage that there would be a lot more men ready to get married a lot quicker! and there'd be a huge influx of brothels at the same time. unfortunately.
2007-02-10 17:26:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
that is one hell of a question.
she should not.
unless she does like a....try before you buy deal. she might be hot, but you still need to know. she should offer it once.
you wouldn't by a kia if the salesman told you that it was faster than a vette without testing it out first, right?
this whole thing does not apply if she's a virgin though.
2007-02-10 17:31:06 · answer #11 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋