Men: WHAT stops you from asking a BLACK WOMAN out?

Question

--- or better yet, What stops you from eventually Marrying them?

I realize that there are so many stereotypes and prejudices against black women. ----(and not to mention,..ALL races/ethnicities)

However, very RARELY do people condsider that NOT ALL of them act the same.

They're not all "hoochies", "loud-mouths", "fight-starters", "uneducated dogs", "easy-to-have-sex-with", inappropriate dressers, full of attitude problems, "booty-shakers", etc.

The list goes on and on, --and I find it completely ridiculous.

Bottom line. Just answer the question as HONESTLY as you possibly can.

"Watson X"--- Like my new makeover

Answer 1

I would not have agree with u about a month ago But When I came back to yahoo There's a black & white user, Black dad, white mom that is VERY almost the most extreme case of racism i've ever seen and its only racism toward black women and white men who defend black women from the rants This user makes this bm ww couple look very bad So what does that mean for black & white girls that was born to this couple Makes me think some very heavy child abuse goes on in this users family Very disturbing and am white This is a joke forum nothing serious this user goes to a storm front level but its only toward one gender of a said race. @ i'm retiring from yahoo that user is disturbing It doesn't matter what race a person is it's un nerving

Answer 2

When it applies to a white man.

Whether it be cultural, physical charectaristics,
lifestyle or even dialect.

The white man shares very little in common
with a black woman.

Most white men date and marry within
their own race.

Answer 3

I think that ,most guys are intimidated by all women in general and black women have so much more responsibility than any other race of women because they take care of the home as well as everything else while making it all look so easy. They are strong and independent so I can see why a lot of men would find it hard to turn over the reins to a someone who is not going to let a man run over them like some of the other races will and have. And as far as cooking with butter is concerned you will more than likely die an early death because your cholesterol level will be higher than a.... well never mind I'll leave that to your discretion

Answer 4

i never actually pondered on the stereotypes on black women until now. well, i don't ask them out 'coz, they're not my type. maybe some men would ask a black women out, maybe you just haven't met them?

Answer 5

I'd love to go out with a attractive black woman. l'll be honest and admit it has a lot to do with the "taboo" thing. (interracial)
But then again l would like to find a decent woman of any race to have a long lasting relationship with.

Answer 6

Not all men feel that way, I've dated outside of my race, and believe or not some men are very open minded. I fit into none of the stereotypes, and those men that don't ask you out simply because of some stereotype are ignorant little boys that you don't want in your life anyway.

Answer 7

My wife she's crazy like that

Answer 8

Only the fact that I'm already seeing somebody else.

Answer 9

well from the looks of your icon what is there to say(was wit da japanese get up?). i mean i love my black women but its hard when i see black woman trying look like something their not. i wish more black women would be more natural more in tune with who they are. i want my nappy root sistas back the strong black sistas of old who didnt care about materialistic sh!t. unfortunately most sistas nowadays are of those stereotypes but that still doesnt scare me from askin them out. anybody can change is up to us fellaz to make it better for out black women.

Answer 10

I've been wondering the same thing! Men act as if Black women were all video hoes and crap! Ugh, they act as if white women don't slept around and act uneducated. I mean if you look at all of these shows like Desperate Housewife's and Sex and the City all the white women on the show are overtly promiscuous.