i already do the normal girl stuff getiing nails done hair done. but sum people r telling me i shouldnt be like this but i wanna be im not skinny i cant find any nice clothes to wear what should i do ?
2007-02-10 16:13:59 · 10 answers · asked by girly.girl 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
You should always and only wear clothing that makes you feel comfortable. True enough that when you look good you feel good but the key is BE YOUR SELF. Do not let other people define you, if you have on flip flops and jeans but you feel hot, then others will pickup on your energy. People can sense insecurities. So no matter what you wear, until you like yourself, you won't feel good and others won't feel you.
Stores like Macy's Lane Brant Ross and Nordstorms all have plus size clothing in all price ranges.
Whatever you decide, remember walk with your head up, a smile on your face and with confience and attitude. There will be no stopping you.
2007-02-10 16:33:27 · answer #1 · answered by at r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. There is nothing wrong with being more girly. A lot of people think it means you're weak or too soft, I think it just means you want to live up to your full feminine potential!!
2. Don't worry about your figure!
3. The way I became more girly is: wear less black, grey and white, and wear more color. I added cool accesories like scarves, cool jewelry, funky shoes. And I hate to say this, but I grew my hair out (I had it short for years) and (gulp!people are going to kill me for saying this) I started wearing more skirts. I love funky fashion. Go to second hand shops and look for cool funky blouses, colorful scarves to tie around your neck or hair. I also look in fashion mags to see what I like and then find something similar. And most importantly, pay attention to your grooming. No matter what your style, wash comb, moisturize and wear a light scent.
The times when I looked the MOST ridiculous is when I tried to "fit in" to an idea of feminity that was not me. I had no idea how to dress "girly," so I just guessed! Like one time I wore a suit that was completely pink, white and mint green floral with panty hose and white shoes. I looked like a gramma! Another time I had an aqua paisley pants suit. Geesh! I must have been crazy.
P.S. If you are very large, try Lane Bryant (they have a catalog and web site) - they have nice stuff for not too much. Wal-mart also has some nicer plus-sizes, but their clothes tend to fall apart a lot.
2007-02-11 00:40:14 · answer #2 · answered by j.p. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is the look i really love in ladies long hair thin not skinny meat on the bones is a good thing also high heels, get your finger nails painted pink or purple, the french manicure. make up is good if you wear very little. always wear lipstick.
always have a cell phone. do not smoke ever that's just groce.
drink wine or champagne not beer,if you drink beer always drink a light beer. if you enjoy wearing skirts i recommend it.please do me a favor? don`t wear any kind of jean skirts their very slutty,
wear a toe ring ,a ring or two on your finger. a necklace and a watch. never swear, okay swear only once in a blue moon. also do not be all loud all the time. talk soft and ad like into your sentences. if you can handle it?
2007-02-11 00:33:14 · answer #3 · answered by katana b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok umm well first u shouldnt be worry about that i no u probley herd this a millon times but u shouldnt worry about that but if u want to be more girly i am the most girly person every i wear abercrombie and hollister that is girly get a personaly trainer to slim down and forever 21 is a girly store too good luck!
2007-02-11 00:23:50 · answer #4 · answered by kersty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me on this... if you want to be more girly. then start by getting you small things that are pink. i used to be like u i used to get my hair and nails done but i was really boyish. im not skinny but i have found out that if your going to wear tight pants then wear a loose shirt and vice versa when your wear a tight to[p or tight pants to make ur but look bigg and a tight top and put a bagg button up white shirt on and tie it at the bottom like a cowgirl it is cute and comfy. my fav color used to be black and boy stuff but now it is pink and girl things not dresses i havent got that far yet!!!!! but remember queen latifa is big a beautifull im not a lesbian but she is beautiful and ya know u agree!!!! big is beautiful!!! be ur self it!!!! u got it flaunt it but not to much!!! you can email me at sugar_sweetness17@yahoo.com or if u got a myspace mine is www.myspace.com/lips2kill17 but good luck to you and your needs!!!!!
P.S.i know my spelling is not perfect i didnt have time to get my nails done so i got some glue on ones and they are pulling my real nails up geez that was a mistake!!!lol!!!!
2007-02-11 00:34:07 · answer #5 · answered by mommy 2 be 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to Rampage or Lane Bryant and get some cute clothes, especially skirts. Get your make-up done at a cosmetics counter so you know how to look your bes. Don't listen to people who want to bring you down.
2007-02-11 00:22:36 · answer #6 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of companies- like New York & Company, have great clothing and go up to size 18.
2007-02-11 00:22:17 · answer #7 · answered by Valerie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being not skinny is too difficult to find clothes to wear but try to wear dark blue or black pants and long straight cut blouses. and be proud of what you are is enough.
2007-02-11 00:20:03 · answer #8 · answered by zagi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry about that. you should just be urself, not try and be someone you don't want to. that's the same thing as changing for someone else.
2007-02-11 00:17:01 · answer #9 · answered by The Crazy B!tch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be urself
2007-02-11 00:40:42 · answer #10 · answered by this is my nickname 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋