Ok here's another problem. (Sorry tons of things this week) So this is about a guy I've known for three years. We're good friends, but the problem is that he tried to ask me out a while back. (In which it failed horribly) It's been at least 8 months since then and now this guy has different personalities. He is seriously in love with me still...he tried to impress me, act tough, and sometimes it gets to the point where he becomes a douche bag. My friend even tries to become what I am. Everything about me, my style, my interests. He acts as if he is me. (Not acting the girl part though) I don't think he has to many friends, because people I know think he's nerdy. But in the end when he's not being fake, he's seriously insecure! He puts up this cover of something he's not...then he expects me to like him or something? Then when that's all over and there's no one left....he goes into a depressional state. What's going on and how can I help my friend?
2007-02-10 15:56:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sounds like your friend has some really serious issues. If he's getting depressed over you not wanting to go out with him, I would say there is more to the story than just that. Sit down and have a heart-to-heart talk with him to see if you can find out what is going on with him. He may need counseling. If he does, just be there for him.
2007-02-10 16:45:02 · answer #1 · answered by Tonya W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-03 03:09:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he really, really likes you. To much, though. Maybe you should go see help at your school- he sounds like the kind of person who would hurt himself over you [or someone else, for that matter]
Maybe you should get him more friends, invite him to a party and see what happens.
Either way, whatever you do, I hope it all ends out good [for you.. and him]
2007-02-10 16:01:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you will go out with him and see how it goes, do this one day at a time and do not take it to fast
2007-02-10 16:01:35 · answer #4 · answered by j13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him what he is doing, in a nice way, and how it makes you feel, that it doesn't look good and the best way to be is to be yourself.
2007-02-10 16:01:00 · answer #5 · answered by strawberry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-02-10 16:02:05 · answer #6 · answered by Kulwant S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋