ok i have a good looking boyfriend, and alot of guys try to talk to me, even girl sometime try to hit on Me LoL...i have a cute body, and i dress nice, but for some reason i Feel ugly most of the time... i am always looking at other girls and comparing myself with them... i dont understand why i think this way.. if i know im not ugly.. and what worse its ruining my relationship because im always thinking my boyfriend is to good for me, and he most be cheating......what do i DO?
2007-02-10 15:50:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Something has made your self-esteem extremely low. Try to figure out what made you start feeling this way. You certainly do not sound like you are ugly. Apparently others like you the way you are and you need to start liking yourself for who you are and think about all the good things about yourself.
2007-02-10 15:55:47 · answer #1 · answered by Dyan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is because society has deemed that all women are supposed to look like the singers and actresses that are "famous" and spend millions of dollars on their looks. And people who meet other people who do not meet this standard come out and say the person being told was ugly. Then, pretty soon, if people keep saying this, that person will have such low self esteem that they will actually believe. What you should do is distance yourself from these people. It is harder for teenagers, because most of them share all their classes with the taunter, and can't get awat, so just ignore them, then pretty soon they will realize that they can;t be friends with you if they don't change their wayss of talking about people.
2007-02-11 00:05:33 · answer #2 · answered by xeneph 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to a mirror and look deep into urself. something is an underlining cause as to why u may be so insecure. But u have to stop telling urself or treating urself that way. When people say oh im depressed, soon they are going to make there self think they are so depressed and become depressed. Think good thoughts. And if u have friends, a great family, or any family at all, a good b/f, then why ya worried? its a normal thing to think oh i need to loose some weight im fat, or my nose dont look right, theres always going to be something, so ur going to have to accept who you are before other people can accept it. If u dont know u then how are they supposed to. Your beautiful, smart, sexy, and awesome. Repeat it to urself, and go have fun!
2007-02-10 23:57:21 · answer #3 · answered by sweetnlovenkindagurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We ALL do this. We are taught from the time we are born that looks are very important. Of course we are going to compare ourselves to others and feel bad. You are NOT ugly. You are beautiful. Smile :)
2007-02-10 23:54:13 · answer #4 · answered by Katie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pretty much every girl either feels this way/has felt this way @ one point in her life. i am a lot like you, a lot of people tell me i'm pretty and stuff, but i always feel like guys are out of my league. i bet ur bf isn't cheating on u, ur probably just being paranoid, ur not ugly, if u were, would he be w/u right now?
2007-02-10 23:56:48 · answer #5 · answered by babewithbrains 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you lack confidence that is all, sounds like you are very attractive. Work on your confidence, but dont be too concerned about your bf leaving, if he does so what, you will find someone else when the time is right.
2007-02-10 23:55:49 · answer #6 · answered by wally 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well every girl feels ugly when they have low confidence...so stop comparing yourselves with other girls...
2007-02-10 23:53:53 · answer #7 · answered by rat_leg danny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STOP COMPARING YOURSELF!
2007-02-10 23:54:13 · answer #8 · answered by sexygrl_blondee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋