I know she likes me and loves my eyes, BUT how should I act. I asked her if she would mind if I made dinner or coffee and she said coffee is fine..lol but does that mean that she wants to leave fast and not take time and have dinner with me? I mean is that a hint that she doens't like me in a attractive way and to back off. If so then what should I avoid on Monday to not make her feel that I am attracted to her? Less eye contact, less jokes.... throw myself off the roof and hope that I don't land on her as she is leaving..lol WHAT..
2007-02-10 15:46:16 · 9 answers · asked by Weapons of Mass Seduction 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Just be yourself. Really. If she likes you (and if she's coming over I can assume she at least likes you as a friend) then she will just want you to be you. Don't put on an act of any kind. As far as dinner vs coffee maybe she said just coffee so she wouldn't have to inconvenience you. I wouldn't automatically assume it's because she doesn't want to eat with you. Maybe once she gets there, you guys could order pizza or you can convince her to let you fix her something. Don't be too pushy since she's just getting out of a relationship. She may need some time. Just be yourself and see what happens. Don't expect too much and you wont be let down. Who knows you may just hit it off. Good luck to you.
P.S. stay off the roof! LOL
2007-02-10 15:54:34 · answer #1 · answered by just jenn 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you're interested then make a some. Buy some scented candles and fancy coffee. Maybe she'll get the hint and make the next move.
2007-02-10 15:57:08 · answer #2 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just make dinner and also coffee and make sure that you tell her that you need to speak to her about your feelings and say that you are in love with her and you are attractive to her, I hope this helps sweety good luck
2007-02-10 15:52:58 · answer #3 · answered by j13 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, when she gets there you can say something like, "Since you didn't want dinner, can I make you breakfast?"
That should give you a better understanding of where you stand.
2007-02-10 16:02:34 · answer #4 · answered by Martin Pedersen 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Im online right now, IM or email me and I can probably help, or just be someone who listens is ya want. 18 f les btw.
by the way...my avatar thinks ur avatar is hot
2007-02-10 16:02:49 · answer #5 · answered by yeaurhot06 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
maybe she didnt want to bother you with the cooking. id say just be yourself and be spontaneous as much as possible! do whatever feels right at the moment.
2007-02-10 15:50:00 · answer #6 · answered by vincent m 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I find that just being yourself works.
Though -- "creating" situations where you have to "oops" be in close proximity, doesn't hurt either. :)
Good luck to ya!
2007-02-10 16:04:04 · answer #7 · answered by Tina 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I personally dont condone this....
But whatever floats your boat.
2007-02-10 15:57:25 · answer #8 · answered by What gives? 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
im guessing ur a lesbian?
2007-02-10 15:49:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋