why do i still miss my first love of my life even after merriage, i fell in love in age of 14 i never tell him or i never confess my love , then is it bad to miss him ,,,,
i dont miss him he suddnly comes in my mind ..:-<
2007-02-10 15:30:38 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, it's not bad to miss your first true love after marriage. It's part of life. Everyone, who has a heart, carries their first true love in their heart forever.
Like you, I fell in love with my first true love whenever I was 14. I am 29 now, and, like you, I still love her. I always will. She had a profound effect on my life that I will never forget, and would never want to. From time to time, I'll have a random dream involving her; I'll remember something and it will put a smile on my face, etc.
Don't listen to these miserable, hateful people that post negative, ignorant comments. They obviously have not experienced true love; have no perspective; and are out to bring everyone down to their to their level. I don't know about you, but I feel for them. I hope their lives improve.
2007-02-10 16:23:45 · answer #1 · answered by Cing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You miss him because he was your first love and when things go a little wrong in a marriage, that is probably when you think about him. I thought about my first love for years and after getting being divorced for a few years, we met again and fell in love all over and married each other. Been married for 30 years. We were apart for 13 years. (I really understand where you are coming from)
2007-02-10 15:36:22 · answer #2 · answered by Dyan 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He will always have a special place in your heart simply because he was your first love. I can guarantee that you will always think of him from time to time, and sometimes even dream of him. There is nothing wrong with this. It does not mean that you are still in love with him. Sometimes during difficult moments it is your minds way of escaping. Don't fret on it too much.
2007-02-10 15:40:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's a normal part of life..To miss the one you first fell in love with...
2007-02-10 15:35:15 · answer #4 · answered by Kayle 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You never forget your first love. It's even harder when you and your first love have a child together and ended up broke up because he cheated on you with your best friend while you were at lamaz class. And I do still have feelings for the creep.
2007-02-10 18:23:46 · answer #5 · answered by amanda b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is quite natural that you cannot forget your first love. It is bad only when you have some guilty consciousness within you. Don't be ashamed that you still remember him. But again, don't let that jeopardise your married life. Remember that life always goes forward and not backward.
2007-02-10 18:17:39 · answer #6 · answered by Babul D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is a question u should ask yourself.
someoneelse's opinion wont help.besides at fourteen u had a crush,and he must've changed now..if u want the same person u'll have to go back to when u were 14 ...u don't want to go back in time right?
2007-02-10 15:50:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its normal everyone will remember their first love but you should miss him because this is ur life and not a game.think of it and take a clear decision about it.
2007-02-10 15:56:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you keep thinking about your past life, it is not good for your future. But you can still can be a normal friends if you want to, good friendship does not harms your marriage life.
2007-02-12 04:17:35 · answer #9 · answered by yogasun2002 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well if your parents had taught you better and not give up your lady parts so easily especialy at 14, then you would not have that problem.
Ideally, you should have saved yourself for marriage.
2007-02-10 15:38:45 · answer #10 · answered by Billy Bob D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋