So I got my little family now. It's my man, our baby, & me. My family never like him, & his family never like me either. Some members of my family want me to choose between them & my family? Like I would honestly choose my little family. My man, our baby, & me. Is that wrong?
2007-02-10 15:15:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You have your own family now and you owe your child and its father your loyalty not anyone else. Good luck to you and your family.
2007-02-10 15:23:41 · answer #1 · answered by zzum 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So wrong that your family asked you to choose between them and your new family.
I think you made the right decision by staying with your man and your baby.
2007-02-10 23:19:51 · answer #2 · answered by limited_edition78 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, both his family and yours have shown how truly shallow they really are. It doesn't matter that you weren't accepted by his family or him by yours simply because neither one of you married the others family, you married each other and that is all that really matters here. If you and he are happy then don't worry about your extended families and if they continue to demand that a choice be made over them or your family tell them to go to hell and spend the rest of your life enjoying your family. You cannot spend your life living for his family or yours, but live for the family that you are making for yourself and the rest really isn't all that important. Good Luck
2007-02-10 23:26:21 · answer #3 · answered by truckerman96 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing should ever come before your little family of your own. Don't let anyone else get involved. I have the same problem. It's got to be you, hubby & baby all the way. That's what marriage is about.
2007-02-10 23:30:38 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definitley choose my little family. You are right in this decision and doing the right thing. You have your priorities in order. You go girl! I am so proud of you. Them making you choose is totally wrong and should never have been done this way.
2007-02-10 23:28:42 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's wrong for them to ask that..choose your little family.
2007-02-10 23:40:12 · answer #6 · answered by Sxoxo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
... nobody should be asking you to choose anything. Now you have your own family and you have to stand up for them. Too bad they don't like each other but time will tell if it can get better. Good luck!
2007-02-10 23:26:05 · answer #7 · answered by Kent-B-True 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they should be happy for you not make you chose. If your family really loved you they would be supportive. Tell your family how you feel.
2007-02-10 23:30:38 · answer #8 · answered by jenny♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope
2007-02-11 00:34:39 · answer #9 · answered by Tonya W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have a new family now and you have started your own family tree. they did it too. they chose their new family. if they didnt you wouldnt here. good luck to you and your new family!
2007-02-10 23:28:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋