we have a 13-month old son together; he's 24 and im almost 21, and we've had some rough times through the 3 years we've been together (off and on) so im not sureon what to do. is a card enough with a heartfelt message inside or should i get him something else? i think he will expect something other than a card but i dont know what. im kinda tight on cash right now so anything is a huge help from ya'll. and i suck at homemade craftsy-type things so PLEASE HELP ME!! thanks !
2007-02-10 15:04:47 · 10 answers · asked by christopher_austins_mom 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Holidays ➔ Valentine's Day
buy him a cheap card with a dinner certificate or gift card for a restaurant that the both of you can enjoy on Valentine's Day.
Wrap yourself up in cellophane on Valentines Day when he gets home from work and let him unwrap you.
2007-02-10 15:09:13 · answer #1 · answered by Dfirefox 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've already given him the best Valentine's gift in the world- a son!
Explain to him your financial situation. Rather than buying something, how about cooking up a nice Valentine's Day dinner, and then giving him a card with a heartfelt message?
For the sake of your son that you have together, I hope that the rough times you have had with your baby's father are over. Prayers for you all.
2007-02-10 15:10:51 · answer #2 · answered by Gal 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best gifts, to me, are not commercial at all, but something that comes from the heart.
I don't know if you live together, but you can arrange for a babysitter for the night, and have soft music on and rose petals scattered around the house when he gets home, maybe some candles burning (or ready to burn) in strategic locations. Cook him a nice meal, (his favorite) and maybe give him a nice back massage.......... none of this costs much and you don't have to be crafty, but it will touch his heart. Try to put the "rough times" behind you, just for the day. That's what it's about. Good luck to you!!
2007-02-10 15:15:44 · answer #3 · answered by Avon Lady 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just get something with meaning. You should like write something meaningful. Or you can make a scrapbook of all your memories with like captions and designs. And put all your pictures in chronological order.
Or you can but some candles and a couple of roses. Sprinkle a trail of roses to the bedroom and have the candles lit and get it on. Even before then you can cook a nice dinner and sit down with each other at the table. If you don't have a table then set up a nice blanket in the livingroom and have like a picnic type of set up. And then you can dance to some slow jams after. Then you get it on.
2007-02-10 15:49:36 · answer #4 · answered by Cloud Nine--Sez YAHH 2 tha hatas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The card is fine. Just make sure that you personalize the message. In the last few years my gf has been in school, while been out for a while. She usually just gets me a card, since I know she's tight on cash.
You could get a small stuffed animal.
2007-02-10 15:10:39 · answer #5 · answered by dtshaff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, i don't understand the information superhighway internet site, yet I easily have some concepts. as a substitute of having books, why no longer make a CD for him. All you like is a clean CD, his admired tunes and a CD burner. If no longer, you are able to create a e book of coupons for issues like his %. on a action picture apartment, watching his admired activities group or enjoying video games with him. or you're able to continuously bypass with the scrapbook theory. good success!
2016-10-01 22:53:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out how much it costs to get his name on the scoreboard of your local team.
2007-02-10 15:09:00 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the best thing is a hug and a kiss and beyond that if u know what i mean ;)
2007-02-10 15:14:34 · answer #8 · answered by cordova0615 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget all these other losers replying they dont no wat theyre talkin bout. i say u should get him somthing like two heart salt and pepper shakers and when u guy r fighting look at them and think about all tha good times and end tha fight and if hes a good guy he wont care wat u get him and appreciate any thing, but if hes not a good guy mabey hes not worth getting anything 4 and u should dich him. i suspect hes a good guy and wont care but thats mi advice
2007-02-10 15:43:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
this is not enough
2007-02-11 12:10:35 · answer #10 · answered by guilototo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋