2007-02-10 14:47:04 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Take a test first, and if positive, think hard about your options. The first thing you have to ask yourself is, do you want him to be involved with the decision. If so, then you'll have to figure out together what's best. If not, then you need to think about having the baby and keeping it, having the baby and giving it up for adoption, or having an abortion. It's a heavy duty thing, but no need to take yourself down that road if you're not pregnant in the first place. Good luck to you!
2007-02-10 16:01:25 · answer #1 · answered by Karen S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Step one: buy an EARLY pregnancy test, such as First Response
Step two: if it is positive, see a doctor right away for medical evaulation
Step three: if the test is positive, inform your ex, and decide what you want to do, including whether adoption is an option
Step four: regardless of the results of the test, vow to always practice safer sex in the future and take steps to prevent unplanned pregnancies with people you aren't married to.
good luck!
2007-02-10 15:03:09 · answer #2 · answered by EmLa 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you confirm it first? The more anxious you get, the more delayed your period will be. Better to get things out of the way by confirming whether you are pregnant or not. Thereafter, you tell your ex-bf if you are pregnant then decide from there. Whatever you decide, make sure that its not something you will regret later on. Good Luck and I hope things work out for you
2007-02-10 15:47:25 · answer #3 · answered by misschief80 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first think about sex did u wear a condom did it break if the answers to these questions are no u probably are and wait for ur next period but if u say yes first call him and tell him of ur suspisioin the go buy a prego test and take it then in a week after takin the first one take a second one to be sure hope u are if u want to be and u arent if u dont wanna be
2007-02-10 15:15:27 · answer #4 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old r u???well if you are under 18, i suggest you talk to him, your current bf (if you have one) and your parents, everyone is there to help. If you are over 18, talk to him about it and maybe get together and start a fund for your baby! If you have a current boyfriend, then maybe you could explain to him and hopefully he will accept the apology....that is all the help i can give because you didnt offer any info.
P.S. before you start to freak out about it, take several pregnancy tests! you can never be too sure!
P.S.S Good luck if you are having a baby! :)
2007-02-10 15:01:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you should talk to him, and explain your concerns. You two should talk about what to do if you are positively pregnant, because that would forever change things between you. You might want to keep the serious stuff for later, until you are sure whether you are or arent ( pregnancy test...preferably @ doctors office) cuz no use scaring him if u aren't sure.
2007-02-10 15:00:49 · answer #6 · answered by sun_sweet 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if you want the baby tell your ex bf that you are pregnant and discuss it with him, he is the father .. i don't know how old you are but you need all the support that you can get so if you can talk to some close relatives or your parents then do so!.
2007-02-10 14:58:10 · answer #7 · answered by livinhapi 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait and find out if you are pregnant, take a HPT when you are late. Tell him the truth.
2007-02-10 14:58:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Have sex with a lot more guys, maybe even your current boyfriend! Then you can blame whoever you want!
2007-02-10 15:14:26 · answer #9 · answered by aynsof 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First step it to take a test..then tell him and decide what is best for you two.
2007-02-10 15:00:11 · answer #10 · answered by dragonfly7887 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋