To make life easier pick one of the following
A: Cheating is Cheating
B: no because you're not in the right state of mind
C: depends on the situation
2007-02-10 14:31:14 · 18 answers · asked by why 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
A
2007-02-10 14:35:46 · answer #1 · answered by HereIAm 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
A. Cheating is cheating because it still was your choice to do the drugs or alcohol of your own free will and it was your choice to cheat as well. Still is cheating and very wrong and unfaithful to a relationship and marriage and should not have happened in the first place. If you have a drug or alcohol problem then you need help and rehabilitation for it to get past the problem or addiction.
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2007-02-10 22:56:15 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hon, it can be all three. You have to see how far your relationship has gone, if its worth savinging, Yes cheating is cheating, depending what this person did, you did not say. It does depending on the situation, which it would seem to me that the person was not in his /her state of mind, and is asking your forgiveness. That will depend on you, how long you been together, has this happened before, what do you both want.I hope the best for you, you can only be the one to make the dissison, I hope I could help on advise.Good luck
2007-02-10 22:46:19 · answer #3 · answered by mybudnoobs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A 100%
2007-02-11 11:14:07 · answer #4 · answered by Mammamia3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A Cheating is Cheating.
In my younger days I drunk alot and I never got myself drunk enough where I would forget about my current boyfriend, although I did drink enough to pass out. Which is why I can't believe the "but baby I had to much to drink " bullshyt.
2007-02-10 23:24:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
being under the influence of anything is being 'influenced' period.
doesnt make it cheating more or less forgivable. someone under the influence is cheating themselves out of sobriety and making clear decisions and owning up to them. A
2007-02-10 22:40:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A. Cheating is cheating, using drugs or alcohol as a crutch is as lame an excuse as one can dream up.
2007-02-10 22:36:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
A. Do you think your wife would be less hurt, less angry, and feel less betrayed if you told her you were drunk and on ecstasy when you slept with that girl you met in Vegas for your friend's bachelor party???
2007-02-10 22:46:00 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The correct answer shoud be A, but the good answer would be C.
2007-02-10 22:37:38 · answer #9 · answered by Nicki 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
A. cheating is cheating is cheating
2007-02-10 22:36:32 · answer #10 · answered by Rhuby 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
A) we are accountable for our own actions.....Jesus loves you
2007-02-10 22:37:14 · answer #11 · answered by Bert 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋