I wish I was kidding, but I'm not. Women hate me for being a healthy, intelligent, confident man, and dismiss me as "boring" and "too nice", and I'm tired of that. So, I need to start mistreating women so that they'll see me as a challenge, and will think I'm exciting.
Please offer some good advice on how to go about this.
2007-02-10 14:24:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Grow up.
If you were being mistreated would you want to be with your abuser?
2007-02-10 14:29:42 · answer #1 · answered by Nort 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Listen. Women can see a "nice guy" TRYING to be a "bad boy" from a mile away. Instead of trying to change YOURSELF to please other people, why don't you change the quality of people you ARE interested in? You totally don't need to mistreat women, you just need to find new and interesting ways to be yourself. If people think you're boring, try something new. Try to be spontaneous BY YOURSELF for a few weeks and see if it's something you could get used to. There's no sense in changing yourself, getting the girl you THOUGHT you wanted, and then realizing that you hate the "new you" you've become in the process. When it's normally the time you go to bed, go take a drive and hit up the nearest Steak and Shake drivethru window. Just live crazy for a few weeks and see if that's something you can handle. Women like guys like that. Seriously... don't change yourself for someone else. Why would you want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with the TRUE YOU anyway? You're just looking in the wrong places, at the wrong women. Change your tactics, not your personality. Good luck. =)
2007-02-10 22:33:25 · answer #2 · answered by Cherstin and Adam F 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most women that are attracted to bad boys..are not intelligent,confident women..they have low self esteem..allow these guys to mistreat them..because they will do anything for love..you are a healthy,intelligent,confident man...so please tell me that is not the kind of woman..you are looking for..hey if the women you go out with find you boring and "too nice"..it is their loss..not yours..never ever sell yourself out..lower your standards..for anyone..
2007-02-10 23:28:16 · answer #3 · answered by noga 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was getting ready to abuse u wen i read the queston, but upon reading the entire thing i can c that ur just confused/frustrated. maybe both lol. Theres nothing funny about ur situation, but id have to say step bak and appreciate urself for wat u relli are. Girls like nice boys much more than bad ones. Healthy, intelligent and confident men are a lot more attractive than bad boys who mistreat u. And the only women who are messed up about themselves would like guys like that. U relli dun wanna be with girls like that believe me. But maybe u need to try not to be too eager. Maybe just hold out a lil b4 calling again, and dun change ur whole life to suit a lady. Women like to feel special and loved, but they will appreciate u more if they realise u hav a life aside from them. i.e. dont cancel all ur plans to go out with her all the time. Hope it helps. U sound like a great guy.
2007-02-10 22:47:24 · answer #4 · answered by websurfer 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋