I want to know the reasons why the family broken and how it will affect the children's lives
2007-02-10 14:19:44 · 6 answers · asked by jovy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
So many things can cause a family to be "broken". Yet if the two adults can work together to make it easier for the children they should turn out just fine. Unfortunately, this is the "norm" now. Not many families are divorce free. I cannot speak for your situation, or the situation of everyone else. But, I can speak from my own. My first marriage was not a good one at all. Many factors caused it. But I did what I thought was best. My ex and I are able to communicate better now then when we were together, my daughter knows that it was not her fault, that we both love her, and that we just could not get along. She sees that I am happy and so is her father. Now she doesn't have a "broken" family she has two combined families, full of people that love her. I hope that when she grows up she will use that in her relationships, If two people really care for their children they will not raise them in a family that is unhappy, that would be teaching them a very unhealthy way to live. Good luck with whatever it may be that you are facing.
2007-02-10 14:35:57 · answer #1 · answered by Angela K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are alot of things that will break a family apart. Cheating having affairs and abuse are the top 3 that i can think of and this really has a negative effect on the kids lives. They also do not need to see mommy and daddy fighting and not getting along. Child abuse drug usage and alchoholism are other negative factors too. BUT on the other hand there are some positives that can bring a family together in closeness like communication, love and devotion and parents loving each other and being together through hard and tough times. Children learn to be safe and they feel secure and safe when mom and dad get along and make marriage and home life a positive and loving one. God as the head of a home and praying is a key as well to a positive home life for kids. Forgiveness and unconditional love is very important for children to see and feel as they are growing up. Children will grow up in spite of things BUT i would much rather have my children grow up in the secure and loving home then the broken and insecure home. Nuff said.
2007-02-10 22:41:55 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a number of factors can contribute to a broken family. alcoholism, drug use, prison,divorce and death. the children often can become troubled. but if there is someone who is a strong role model who has a lot of love to give and encouragement it can be fixed. some say their life is screwed up because they come from a broken home. they never even gave the love that was there a chance.
2007-02-10 22:39:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the mom and dad get divorced.. then the family is broken..
this can affect the kids in so many different ways... it would be difficult for anyone to know the full effects on the kids lives.. because they dont easily forget things.
2007-02-10 22:25:35 · answer #4 · answered by J.F. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one will ever really know what causes the break, but my parents divorced when I was like 5, I don't ever remember them being married, as a child, I don't think this was bad. My dad was always there for me. Know as a mother, I want more for my child, in a sense. It's what you take from it, and how you learn from it. But it mostly depends on your parents, as long as the both of them are active in your life, then your really not broken.
2007-02-10 22:29:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lack of happy sex
2007-02-10 22:26:35 · answer #6 · answered by DON 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋